[Twisted_Soul]

It was a long time coming. She is so negative and unaccepting. She lives in the realm of herself and only her beliefs matter. No one else will go to Heaven unless they believe exactly like her.
She has been neglectful all my life. Now, as an adult she still doesn't care about anything about me.
She doesn't respect me for who I am and from the growth in life I have made.
I used to collect SSD and was able with much help to stay on meds and start working again. But, that means nothing to my mother.
So, I sent back her $50 xmas check she sent me and told her I don't want material things from her. I just want her to love me for who I am.
I can no longer tolerate how she treats me.

[(JD)]

[Wants2Fly]

(((((((((((((Twisted))))))))))))))))

So sorry you are feeling badly about this.

[Fuzzybear]

It sounds like you made a good decision..... no one needs or deserves negative and unaccepting people in their life, whether related by blood or not.....and if she negates your growth..... well that is just the pits. Good job! (((((((((((((( TS ))))))))))))))))

[jlove973]

I wish I did years ago, but didn't have the courage. My mom was the exact way to the tee kind of weird.
At the end of her life I felt closer to her more then ever and she explained to me why she was that way with me. Yes it is unacceptable. She hurt me in many ways and that I will never forget. At least I heard her words before she died. She was still the same way when she died, but by then I knew why.
(((((((((((((((((((Twisted Soul)))))))))))))))))))

I am very happy for you for doing that. I completely understand what you are going through. Pardon me were going through

Jlove

[nothemama8]

see I told ya you had strength, am so glad to see you back have worried about you, have asked ppl about you no one knew, Please don't disappear again

[SeptemberMorn]

Just the title of your thread hurts me, Twisted Soul. I was written off twice but through no fault of my own. IMO, someone really has to be incredibly inhuman to be written off as a mother.

[Twisted_Soul]

Thanks for your replies.
I thought long about my decision.
I didn't come to it over night.
I came to it after 37 years of neglect and pain.

[bebop]

my mother was a mean woman. I was 35 when she died. it hurt so bad. she never told me why she treated me bad but I still loved her very much. Not sure how a child can "write off" a parent. they after all did give us life. I was taught as long as there is breath there is hope. I hope things change for you.

[BlueFaith]

((((( Suz )))))
I'm sorry you have been hurt so much by your mother. When I look at you all I see is a beautiful, wonderful person that I care deeply about. It sure is good to see you here.