[Cjj6]

For the past couple of weeks I've just had this feeling that my boyfriend (now ex ..he broke up with me last Friday because I was hanging out with my best friend that is a guy, and I told him before hand.. We are suppose to be working on things tho) is cheating on me... He says he's not and I'm the only girl but these feelings won't go away. And it's kinda hard to think otherwise considering he's been ignoring me for the past 3 hours.... We were texting just fine and then he randomly stopped. This isn't the first time it's happened either. The other weekend I caught him in a lie, saying he was out with his room mate, ignored me for a couple hours, yet answered his phone when I called from a different number he didn't know. I know I sound like a crazy girlfriend .. Sometimes I think I am. I feel like I'm obsessed with him. But in all honestly, would you think your other half is cheating on you of you were in my position ??? What should I do. Everytime I bring up anything he gets mad!!! He's diagnosed with bi polar, but that still doesn't give him the right to treat me this way he should be open and willing to talk to make me feel better. I'm so stressed and confused I need to know the truth!! I deserve that much. So any opinions would be great !! Thanks !!

[Rose3]

Maybe allow yourself some time and distance from him and this stuff. From your description, it sounds like he broke up with you, ignores you, etc.

[hvert]

It sounds like this is a lot of work, maybe too much to be worth it?

He may not be cheating. If you call and text him a lot, he may just want a break for a few hours. Some people need more space than other people.

I have been on the opposite end, where someone thought that I was out cheating on them because I didn't pick up their call. They called me 14 times in a single night. I wound up breaking up with him over that.

And... I've been on the other end, calling people from other people's phones. It's just not a good place to be! If you have to go to those extremes before he will talk to you, I would find someone new who wanted a similar level of contact.

[Lead]

hope things work .

[Cjj6]

I just feel like he's doing something he shouldn't be. I keep catching him in lies. I just don't have it in me yet to leave him and I wish I did because I know I deserve so much better. Who really wants to be with someone they don't trust who you're always going to be wondering what they are doing and who they're with...it's just not fair nor right tired of being let down

[Yoda]

Originally Posted by Cjj6

... Who really wants to be with someone they don't trust...

You answered your question.

A healthy relationship has trust and respect.

[Cjj6]

And he just ditched me once again!!!! There's only two weekends a month I'm free (my sons at his dads) and he ditches me and ignores my calls!!! So done. I just want money he owes me and I'm gone :'(

I'm sorry that you're having a hard time with you're boyfriend right now. I know you've heard this a lot, but you deserve so much better. I went out with someone before and he constantly ignored me all the time: I didn't feel wanted or loved and most of the time I was crying. It sounds like he's making you very unhappy. Hope things get better for you.

[Cjj6]

That's exactly how I feel i tell him all the time, all I ask is to feel appreciated. I do anything I can for him but nothing is ever good enough. I want to let go so so bad ..I'm having such a hard time though