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#1
May 12, 2014, 09:54 AM
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i was curious if anyone else gets/ feels this way. i have been with my bf for almost 6 years and although i am very attracted to him and love him very much at the same he really wasn't/ isn't the kind of guy pshyically i find myself day dreaming about. i'd never leave him and im very much love is more than skin deep but i am curious as if anyone has a specific type of guy phyically they are attracted to.
for example my guy now is is about 6ft, slender and dresses as i describe ganster/rocker ish has tattoos and piercings...kinda old 90's style in a way. which like i said i do like and love him to death....but i really find im attracted to tall guys with a little mucle dark hair, pale, blue eyes, very much old world vampirish....not the stupid emo or hipster people...but really vampireish/ goth, but very manly and in control  so what kind of guys are you attracted to? is there major differences in maybe someone who you are with and also what your attracted to? this post is intended to be light hearted and fun so enjoy 
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#2
May 12, 2014, 04:27 PM
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Good question, but I've found my tastes changed over the years. I used to be into men who were quite a bit taller than I am (which isn't difficult to find as I'm only 5'5") with broad shoulders....but not muscle bound men, even tho I know lots of women who find them good looking. Now, I find I prefer men who are only a bit taller than I am, and slender/medium build...but still no body-builders.
Color of hair/eyes never mattered (although I prefer dark to blonde). Actually thought Anthony Perkins was super cute except for those conflicted mother issues. Now I prefer a less peaked man...but specifically, I cannot abide a 'pretty' man....think Brad Pitt. Lucky for him Angelina is prettier than he is. 
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#3
May 12, 2014, 04:39 PM
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lol i have a thing for men with green eyes... but what always atracts me is a man that teases and jokes a lot. my dream guy has: green eyes, brown hair, tall and wide shoulders and nice chest to hold me in his arms. oh he has to have a nice bottom :P
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#4
May 12, 2014, 05:07 PM
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The WRONG ones usually.
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#5
May 12, 2014, 08:54 PM
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May 12, 2014, 09:24 PM
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I like Slavic guys, like Roman Pavlyuchenko, he's a Russian soccer player. He's on the photo with his wife. She is also from Russia but of a different ethnic group, some Caucasus Mountains ethnicity.
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#7
May 13, 2014, 01:53 AM
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Usually the guy who look like a man (seriosly these day almost all the guy i see on the mall look so femine and it confused me lol) and he need to be smart i usually attracted to smart guy, physically i like big muscular ( not too big) , tanned, dark hair, wide shoulder and no make up ( i need to be the pretty one not him lol) .
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#8
May 13, 2014, 05:00 AM
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definatley agreed they have to look manly i can't handle these girly men 
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#9
May 13, 2014, 07:51 PM
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Abusive losers with monkeys on their backs.
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#10
May 14, 2014, 02:29 AM
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In the past I was attracted to all the wrong type of guys and often times dated abusers.
Now I'm attracted to shy & sweet men. I don't like men who are blunt with me or who are overally forward cause it makes me feel uncomfortable. A man who will enjoy having conversations with me & doing activities with me. |
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#11
May 14, 2014, 06:47 AM
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Well...according to my very limited experience as a teen..
I find that I am attracted to someone dedicated to his own passion and career, and that he is willing to work hard for it. He is also intelligent, as in able to talk to me about anything at all. He is also always willing to accept whatever he has done wrong,and if he had reasons for what he did, he will explain properly, not just accept my accusations and hide his feelings. I really respect a guy who doesn't keep his feelings to himself and breed hatred for me. In other words, he should be honest. And gentle. I myself am not gentle, and I find gentleness lacking in my family. To find that in a man, I simply can't resist. In terms of looks...I don't know. I find that I can be attracted to all types of guys who look vastly different from each other. Maybe I'm attracted to their personalities. |
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#12
May 14, 2014, 06:55 AM
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Dark, stocky, hairy chest with muscle, about 5' 9'.
Not keen on blondes they look insipid. I'm useless tho. I have ended up with narcs/control freaks. Learning to recognize those Red Flags . 
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#13
May 14, 2014, 10:03 AM
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I used to be attracted to bad boys. Gang members, car thieves, ex-inmates. Seriously, my exes could've been part of a line up.
Now, I am attracted to soft, nerdy types. My boyfriend is mostly but sometimes he gets loud when he's telling a story and it's like needles on a chalkboard. I've also been increasingly attracted to bigger body types. My boyfriend is around 350 and I would never have looked twice at him before. Now I took one look and he got my engines revving! |
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#14
May 21, 2014, 05:39 PM
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The ones who use women to get what they want .
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May 21, 2014, 05:43 PM
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The kinds who don't know how to give as good as they get. I give my All and they take it all! Give no love back!
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May 21, 2014, 07:19 PM
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My taste varies
Mad Men - John Hamm...but I also like the naughty - John Slattery. - love his humor. Most of the professionals on Dancing With the Stars I like dark hair long or short dark eyes tall...but has to have a sexy brain or looks do not matter
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#17
May 22, 2014, 04:44 AM
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in movies, i am attracted to men who are humble yet brave, and who put other people's needs before their own.
in reality, i am attracted to men who show an interest in me by making conversation and letting me know that they enjoy my company. that is how i ended up with my partner. he is a giver too, which is a bonus. physically, i like sleek fit men, but the only man that i ever dated with a great body was so arrogant and controlling that i realized that i could do without having a fit partner. |
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