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#1
Jan 25, 2015, 07:55 PM
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What do you do when you love someone but you know they will never change and you will become nothing if you stay . And if yoy leave there is live there waiting for you to treat you with respect and treat you passionately but you just cant seem to let go . Even thoygh with every part of your being you want to.
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Jan 25, 2015, 09:35 PM
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Hi s*c*nfused
I am sorry to hear that you are in a difficult situation right now. It's hard being in a relationship if you are not feeling as if there will be positive outcomes for you. It's almost as if you have made up your mind ...... but haven't ...... Have you got a counsellor you can speak about this with? |
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#3
Jan 25, 2015, 10:04 PM
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No unfortunately i don't . Yes my mind is kinda made up just don't know how to.
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Jan 30, 2015, 08:20 AM
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I did that last year. Left a man I've been with for over 8 years. I left when I realized I didn't like who I become, and my life wasn't and will never be the way I wanted. The way I went about it I literally told myself DO IT. Walked in the room and said I have to tell you something: "it isn't working for me and I am completely done. I want to remain amicable through this, I will be out in about 30 days." (We lived in his house). There was other stuff after that such as him begging, then he had a heart attack (not kidding), then he pursued me for another 6 months after I left etc it was tough. One of the hardest parts was that we were very involved in each other families, each other kids lives etc if it was just us it would be easier. I am very happy that I left but pain remains. We loved each other and we had so many wonderful memories that we both struggle with it... I think when you make up your mind just take a deep breath and go do it, then deal with aftermath. Good luck to you and hugs Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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#5
Jan 31, 2015, 07:45 AM
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He just somehow draws me back in . I Donthave want to be with him i just don't know how to leave him. Which is stupid cause i am ready living in my own house now . He just worms in without me knowing . And there is thia other beautiful guy waiting for me who i want to be with with all my being i just cant seem to escape .
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#6
Jan 31, 2015, 07:50 AM
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What interferes with your leaving?
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#7
Jan 31, 2015, 07:51 AM
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Change your locks and he won't be able to show up
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#8
Jan 31, 2015, 07:52 AM
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I honestly don't know . Scared of him taking the kids scared that they will want to go
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Jan 31, 2015, 07:52 AM
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File RO
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#10
Jan 31, 2015, 07:54 AM
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What's that
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Jan 31, 2015, 07:54 AM
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I don't have full custody .
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#12
Jan 31, 2015, 07:58 AM
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What if you call or go to a women's center and discuss your options with them?
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#13
Jan 31, 2015, 07:58 AM
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He is a good father to his three but the rest of us its just mind game emotional **** ups and manipulation of everything . He is the victim mo matter what.
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#14
Jan 31, 2015, 08:01 AM
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Been trying to Bill3 but they are just so snowed under . And because his abuse is not physical and not towards the kids well his anyway it is his word against mine.
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Jan 31, 2015, 03:05 PM
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Protection order I forgot what the proper name go to police tell them u are scared of him have some proof and he won't bother you Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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