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Jul 24, 2014, 07:08 AM
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hey. i've liked a guy long ago, and i think i fell out of love with him. because now, im doing everything to get in love with him. i feel really empty, have no interests anymore for long, and have trouble with communicating. when i talk with someone, it feels like im not enough or something. i don't know how it works. does the love still exist? did i really love him? am i able to fall back in love with him? xx
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Jul 24, 2014, 09:25 AM
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Hello Melomelon, welcome to PC btw!
Love is a complicated matter and I don't believe it is the same in every case or with every person. Did this guy do something that spurred your feelings to change about him? You shouldn't feel like you are not good enough, because I assure you are! I hope this man did not make you feel this way. It is okay to fall out of love with someone, it happens. 
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Jul 24, 2014, 11:11 AM
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hey there ! thankyou for answering and all.
idk how it happend actually, it was quite long ago and it's still bothering me it seems. maybe im just desperate to find someone new, i really don't know. but i wonder if my feelings for him at that time, will remain somewhere forever or if you fall out of love it dissapears somewhere. i don't know, i just feel empty or something. it's not a good feeling. that's the main thing what's bothering me. i can't explain how im feeling anymore, because i can't find it. |
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Jul 26, 2014, 01:59 PM
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You didn't fall out of love because you never fell in love. Love is a choice not something you fall into if you want to love you can. Remember people age and change.
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Jul 27, 2014, 04:00 AM
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Aug 01, 2014, 12:36 AM
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In order to figure out what to say you need to figure out how you feel then say exactly that. If you never get it out you'll never be able to move on.
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Aug 01, 2014, 08:14 AM
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Trust me when I say love still does exist. I have been lucky enough to find it twice and you will too but it sounds like the two of you are just not meant to be and you should tell him how you feel.
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