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Jul 18, 2014, 06:11 AM
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I'm married women, got married 2yrs back. But me n my husband keep on fighting coz 1 caught him with pros. Now i'm unable to trust him. is there a way to end these fights? I'm feeling mentally disturbed, please advice me what to do?
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Jul 18, 2014, 09:52 AM
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Feeling stupid here, when you say, "pros" what does that mean?
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Jul 18, 2014, 10:52 AM
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My advice....couples counselling or divorce. If you can't trust him, that's bad enough, but the possibility he's bringing disease or critters back to your bed is unacceptable. That's my two cents.
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Jul 18, 2014, 11:36 AM
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If you do not trust someone... there is no relationship. Unless, this was agreed beforehand. Sorry you are going thru this reetu
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Jul 19, 2014, 01:16 PM
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Jul 19, 2014, 04:08 PM
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Yes either therapy or separate. Anyhow it would be helpful for you to talk to someone to help you come to a decision and communicate with your husband.
In the meantime you deserve some self soothing, go on a girls day or night out, get your hair done, go to a spa. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Jul 19, 2014, 05:26 PM
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Im sorry this has happened to you .
Can you go to couples counselling ? If he refuses then Divorce would be the obvious choice . I know it is difficult in your country .. but it is possible . You deserve a man that loves YOU and you alone . Take care of you
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Jul 23, 2014, 02:30 PM
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I would be so hurt. My man looking for pleasure from another woman? I would take that so hard.
The trust would be gone. You will always resent him and in the back of your mind wonder if he was with someone else. I can't tell you what to do. He has dismantled your marriage single handily. Whatever you decide to do, this was not your fault. Its better to know this now then later down the road.
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Jul 23, 2014, 03:22 PM
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I am sorry you are dealing with that. I see you are from India and am wondering about the customs you have there and if this is considered normal for married men. I would not want to advise you to do something that might bring harm to you. I know that sadly in some cultures women don't have many rights when it comes to something like this.
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Jul 23, 2014, 09:49 PM
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What is there to argue about? Of course you cannot get this traumatic injury out of your mind. What is there, really to talk with him about? If he believes you are a baby maker, and your culture doesn't allow divorce. He needs to run the gamut of tests before harming whatever children he plans with you. Let him explain why, or would that be your fault? Serious there. Perhaps in vitro, will be the only solution and pretend he doesn't exist.
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