My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years.
In the beginning of the relationship the sex wasn't wow, but I thought that maybe the fact that he was recently separated had some thing to do with it.
Things were getting worse and worse as last time we had something was 8 months ago. He refuses to talk about it. And we argue a lot. I feel terrible, my self esteem was totally destroyed. I feel fat and ugly, even though I know I am not.
He told me one day that he has porn addiction and he stares woken just in front of me as we walk together. He's been recently on a trip with friends, and I found out that he went to a strip club. And it seems that he got super excited there. He swears to me that never cheated but I'm not sure if I believe him. I also found out that he talks to other women on Facebook, like in a flirting way.
I even suspect that he goes with prostitutes. Because it had been too long, can't believe he had no sex with anyone in 8 months.
I am going to break up with him this weekend. He's been good to me on certain things, however I cannot continue living with someone who's attracted to anyone else but me.i hate this feeling and I'm not bad looking at all.

[bluekoi]

brasucasi, Good luck. You've thought about this and have decided to end your relationship. We are here to support you in your decision.

I wonder how a boyfriend like him think it's okay to continue a relationship that isn't the definition of a relationship~ Will he come to his senses once you break up with him, that's another thing to think about, but as for now, it's great you're doing this!

It was a very difficult decision but I will do it! I can't live like this anymore. I'm afraid if he left his 12 yrs wife go for not being able to "fix" his issue, why would he do it for me? No, this man needs professional help.

[DSM-3.1415926]

Indeed he does. The last thing you need is to play second fiddle to a bunch of artificial images of so-called "perfect" women and "perfect" sex in his misguided head.

[Bumblebuzz12]

Good for you I completely support your decision good luck and I hope all goes well

Thanks!!