[Roxy2293]

This guy is so annoying. I called him out of being a player many times saying "I am not into players" "You're a player" "I won't date a player" etc. He always says "No i'm not" When he is a player. He won't let up! Even when I call him out! He still keeps trying. If I was him I would quit, cause I would think it's useless cause A. The girl figured me out B. I would think she is obviously not that type....I told him I am not into booty calls. I am not the type that sleeps around with a bunch of different men. Yet he is still trying date me or whatever and will be suggestive. Makes no sense to me! Maybe someone can give their opinion and tell me what they think about this, cause if he's called out on it, then why does he keep trying? Or maybe it's something else? Any opinions welcomed! Thanks!

[~Christina]

Sounds like he thinks if he keeps asking and asking that you will give in.. Guys like that love the "Chase" .. So you know how he is.. Why be around him at all ?

Avoid him. Whenever he tries to talk to you pretend he doesn't exist. No matter how much talking he does act like he isn't there so he can go bother someone else. If you don't say anything to him he won't have anything to motive him.

[IceCreamKid]

I think Christina called it correctly. You might try telling him, once, "I am just not interested" but if he continues to attempt to contact you, ignore him. If he continues after that and you find it alarming, contact the authorities.

[ChipperMonkey]

Simply put, because some guys, especially the player types, are just big dumb idiots. No, not gender bashing as I'll readily admit that there are a lot of stupid females out there, too. But, guys like the chase. I've been telling one guy "no" for six months, that I don't do booty calls, etc, but to this day he still hits me up to meet him. Ok, well he's not getting anything from me, so he can continue to waste his time, as I really don't care.

[lilypup]

You're a big challenge to him and probably fun to annoy at this point.Stop talking to him at all. You don't need his kind of behavior.

Originally Posted by lilypup

You're a big challenge to him and probably fun to annoy at this point.Stop talking to him at all. You don't need his kind of behavior.

Exactly. This whole thing is entertainment to him.

[Elektra_]

i have the exact same prob at the gym. he has no boundaries... hes inconvenient, invades my space... and i showed many times i didnt like the way he approached me yet he continues (probb hits on everything that moves). one day i just decided to ignore him. try that... he will probb leave u alone. tc