Dating

This is propably a very dumb question, but I guess I´m just looking for some confirmation, so I´m gonna go ahead anyway.

Been dating a girl that lives in a other town, and it´s not something that I really want, but we both thought we had such a special connection.
I´ve been hoping that she would move here in my town later if it comes to anything serious, and I´m not looking for anything else. She lives in a smaller town, and has some plans to maybe moving here for collage, after she gets her graids up. She has her favorite sister and favorite friend here too, so it wouldn´t be like throwing all the cards on me.

It´s been really intense from the start, witch was at New Year.
From the start it was she that said that she was tired at being single, but then `got new feelings` a need to be free, whatever that means...
But she still wants to see me and be with me, but doesn´t know if she wants to be comitted or not.
I´ve pretty much made my mind about not seeing her before she knows what she wants, but she says that how will she know if she doesn´t get to see me.
I´m thinking that both must have the same needs and wills before there can be any point of falling in love.

Just looking for some of your views on that.
tc!
,Mikey

Hello Mike.
I think you definitely need to be honest, and talk to your girlfriend about how you are feeling about the relationship. I feel that clearing up the questions you have before your girlfriend moves to your town, may be the best thing to to to ease your conscience, and know where the relationship lies at this time, so you know what to do in the relationship, and decide whether or not you still want to have a relationship with your girlfriend. take care soidhonia

Hello,
Well I have talked about this alot with her, and today I tolld again that I wont see her before she knows what she wants.

She understands, but I guess the biggest problem is that were chatting so much on msn, and we propably need to take eatch other away from the contact list, if it don´t get better in the future.
I feel that she wont move here, and she keeps changing what she wants all the time, and she knows that she have issues to clear up before getting serious.
I pretty much know what to do, but just wanted to hear some other persons opinion.
Thanx!