[lifeisapigsty]

Hi folks, this is my first main post so I hope it's okay to post a thread early on

I have got quite a few issues going on in my head and one of them seems to be extreme attachment to people.

I'm unsure about my sexuality and at the weekend I met a very attractive girl. I'm not sure that she likes me (we had both been drinking) but she was hugging me and kissing which at the time I thought was great.

It's not Tuesday morning and I'm not really sure how I'm going to cope without her. This is the thing, I barely know her - we sent texts to each other today but I'm scared that I'm being obsessive.

I am really upset tonight at the thought of her finding someone else and me being a loner.

Again, apologies if I'm not supposed to post as a "noob" but this is causing me great distress and any help would be greatly appreciated.

On another note, if I did see her and took it slowly would it be right or wrong to mention my mental health issues?

Many thanks,

Moz

[IchbinkeinTeufel]

'o.O Lucky! Sounds like she's into you. Pretty hard to mix THOSE signals, dude. It may have just been the alcohol... perhaps just ask her "The night we got drunk and you were hugging me and kissing me; was that just the alcohol?" maybe something like that? I'm a bit worried about this "extreme attachment", though... are you getting any kind of help for this? Because, if that is fancypants words for "clingy as all balls", then it could very well cause problems. On the other hand, an ex of mine was clingy and that went well... well, at first.

I think it would be a good idea to mention the health thing, because... well, ... better her to know that it's a real problem you struggle with, a recognised mental-health issue, rather than just a creepy, clingy guy. (in-case she ever thinks that because you get "extremely attached")

Best of luck!

Oh, and welcome to Psych Central; make yourself at home. Say hi to Scotland for me; I miss it!

[lifeisapigsty]

Thank you for the reply.

Turns out it was the drink, she isn't interested in me at all - I received the news via text. Disappointed to say the last, she was beautiful and friendly and extremely understanding.