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Old Oct 07, 2014, 02:04 AM
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My long term partner of two and a half years dropped on me last night that I don't fancy her, right after we had sex.

Obviously this made me feel terrible, and I still do. I just want to run from the situation.

I told her that I still do and asked if she had a good time and why she thinks that and she said she doesn't know. I said we wouldn't have just had sex if I didn't fancy her anymore. And she said I could zone out or something.
Which I don't.

Even when I reassure her she doesn't believe me.

I don't know what to do. This has really messed me up.


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Old Oct 07, 2014, 09:13 AM
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I think she is really just asking a question when she says that tbh. She is wondering if you still love her or if she is just something you are passing the time with. She is just showing you her "fears" that is all, she probably has low self esteem and feels insecure. If you still love her then you need to just let her know to reassure her.
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