[Alter]

Okay, so i had a friend that someday we had a huge discussion about something we both got pissed off and we insulted each other very hard, that happaned a long time ago back in 2009 and since that day i never spoken or seen that person again, we are from diferent citys, i was a bit mad the day that happaned it was just a few months after i got bullyed and tried to commit suicide the pain was recent and i didn't knew how to handle it well like i do nowadays, i never meant to say any of the things i said the things i said were very cruel and offensive. I never have forgotten about that person and the thing i said, i regret having done what i did and i always wanted to appologize for what happaned but i had no way to contact that person.

Today i found that person facebook profile, i thought of trying to make a friend request and talk to the person, but im not sure if i should, it has passed so much time since that day, i really liked that person i should had never had said what i said, i also don't know if the person will accept my request or even let me say what i have to say and also im not even sure of what to say since it envolves the dark part of my life and i don't feel confortable talking about it to anyone and even if i did i can't know what reaction to expect since i don't speak with that person in many years and the person probably hates me.

What should i do? Try to apologize or just let it go?

[bluekoi]

Alter, If apologizing is something you feel will be beneficial to both you and your old friend, by all means make the attempt. Please understand that your old friend may or may not respond. The main point is you had the desire to apologize and made the effort to do so.

[Me and my dog]

Maybe not a friend request, start it off with a private message. You only have one chance to make a second impression. Be tactful! Good luck~

[Alter]

Originally Posted by Me and my dog

Maybe not a friend request, start it off with a private message. You only have one chance to make a second impression. Be tactful! Good luck~

The thing is if i sendo her a private message without adding to friends it will probably show in the others folder and will never be read

[LFC555]

Some things (and people) are best left in the past. You probably won't see that person again since it was several years ago anyways.

[Alter]

Originally Posted by LFC555

Some things (and people) are best left in the past. You probably won't see that person again since it was several years ago anyways.

You're probably right, anyway i already sent that person a private message explaining my reasons without giving the details, now what happens, happens.

Thanks all for your comments.