[Hockeystar10]

I have just got back from hockey after two of only being home in the summer to spend time with the girlfriend. So now I'm home for good and she's in school and really busy, so we don't see each other that much a week. So the problem is that I haven't ate a full meal in months and I never feel good, the only time I feel good is when where together or I visit her at work. She has many guy friends and is always texting them I know she is faithful but I can't help but think the worst. It just seems like I need her around 24/7, so please help I don't know why I feel like this and wanna figure out what I can do to help make it better.

Hello and welcome to PC!

You may try seeing a therapist if you are not. What it sounds like is there is dependency thing going on. A therapist would be able to help you with that.

Best of luck

[Azwraith]

How was your relationship with your mother, when you were a child? Or with your older sister, if you have any?

It sounds like you have some kind of fear of abandonment, but that could be just me. Try googling it and see for yourself if that is how you feel.

[Lemon Curd]

I wholeheartedly agree with the above replies. Sounds like you may be addicted to how she makes you feel. You're giving your power away to her. You're allowing her to control your thoughts & feelings. That's a lot of power to turn over to someone else; You putting yourself in a very vulnerable position; You may be opening yourself up to a whole lotta hurt. Also, to me, sounds like an obsession, which is not love & is more about you than her. That's just me. *big friendship hug*