[Roch24]

HI,
I dont know where to start this, however I will write what comes to my mind at this moment. I am a girl and I have fallen with a another girl deeply and it is been 3 years for this relationship. However I am living in Australia and she is living in another country, when we start our relationship she was 21 years old and her whole world was me, distance was never barrier for our love, I have spend so much money for this relationship (recharge her phone every day 2-3 times, gifts etc) I do not care about the money as she really did love me like crazy and she promised me that she going to canada with me (leaving her parents) and settle there. However in this year February, she enrolled a university and untill last 2 months she was fine but now she has been changed alot. and I can not think a way to forget her. having 3 year relationship with high hopes (i am also studing stil and if I need to make her come to canada I have to sponcer her or spend so much on her student visa, I have work so much hard to these things i was even ready for my leaving my parents for her, making for the expences for student visa make my life so much harder, even those things happened i loved her so much like crazy) but now sometimes she says she is affraid of if her parents know this relationship and what will happen also sometimes avoid me. As i am so much into her i cant live wih her avoidance, when she really loves me she asked me to not have any friends (girl) as she jealous now I dont even have 1 friend and no one to talk i dont know what to do i cant live like this please help me

[Bill3]

I'm so sorry that you are hurting right now.

A positive step would be to re-establish friendships with other girls. They can support you and give you company. She should not be asking you to give up all other female friends and it would be healthy for you to disregard that request from now on.