Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Nov 04, 2014, 06:40 AM
The Other Guy's Avatar
The Other Guy The Other Guy is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Nov 2012
Location: Somewhere I shouldn't be
Posts: 50
I've been trying to tell a girl I like that i like her but every time I try I cant do it, I always chicken out. Does anyone know an easy way to do this
__________________
When people ask me what depression feels like I just tell them that it feels like you want to kill yourself for not being good enough
Hugs from:
Alone & confused

advertisement
  #2  
Old Nov 04, 2014, 07:23 AM
hvert's Avatar
hvert hvert is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Jan 2014
Location: US
Posts: 4,889
I would ask her out on a date - ask her if she wants to go to the movies on X weekend or Y night. Make it specific but give her a couple of options.

There's no easy way of doing it, though. I highly recommend not doing it via writing -- face to face is much better because it will really let you see how she feels about you.
  #3  
Old Nov 04, 2014, 08:22 AM
Slamjammer's Avatar
Slamjammer Slamjammer is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2014
Location: S.W. Florida
Posts: 326
First....don't tell her, SHOW her that you like her. I'm not saying to make goo-goo eyes, or trip over your own feet trying to be her slave, or childish things such as that. I'm saying treat her like a LADY, with respect, good manners and affection. Just talk with her....about anything. I'm not saying to be a mindless blabberhead, just engage her in conversation. I've never figured it out, but women always seem to like to talk ;-)

If you do these things, she will get the message and words will be unnecessary. Nonetheless words will come, at the right time, and it will seem very natural to you.

Give it time, and good luck.
__________________
We are not our bodies, we just live there. 😎
Hugs from:
Alone & confused
Thanks for this!
Alone & confused
  #4  
Old Nov 04, 2014, 09:41 AM
Alone & confused's Avatar
Alone & confused Alone & confused is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Jan 2014
Location: Arkansas
Posts: 1,474
Quote:
Originally Posted by Slamjammer View Post
First....don't tell her, SHOW her that you like her. I'm not saying to make goo-goo eyes, or trip over your own feet trying to be her slave, or childish things such as that. I'm saying treat her like a LADY, with respect, good manners and affection. Just talk with her....about anything. I'm not saying to be a mindless blabberhead, just engage her in conversation. I've never figured it out, but women always seem to like to talk ;-)

If you do these things, she will get the message and words will be unnecessary. Nonetheless words will come, at the right time, and it will seem very natural to you.

Give it time, and good luck.
Yep! This is what I was going to say. I agree. Be kind, thoughtful, maybe flirt a little. Women like for their emotional needs to be met, and tend to fall for those who meet them. Good luck!
Reply
Views: 393

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 04:08 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.