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Old Dec 01, 2014, 04:28 AM
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husband love another women. when find out, they stop, he want to rebuild the marriage. How can i trust him or forget

my husband was jealous - i lost all my friend - the reason - he was in a affair with another women

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Old Dec 02, 2014, 09:58 AM
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I'm sorry you have had to go through this. Only you can decide if you can forgive him. When you make your decision then you will find peace.
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Old Dec 02, 2014, 10:59 AM
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So sorry your going through such a horrible time. Take your time and make the right decision for you.

Are you able to see a Therapist? That can help you process all of this and can show you what options you have.

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Old Dec 02, 2014, 02:08 PM
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This must be so difficult for you.

When we enter into marriage it is an expectation and a right that our husbands will be faithful to us.

It can be difficult to regain that trust.

My husband had an affair......
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Old Dec 03, 2014, 07:54 AM
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I can't decide what to do. I wanna walk away - then my kids hurt again. Stay and I am unhappy
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Old Dec 03, 2014, 11:01 PM
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Wait. Did you just say you lost all your friends? Your husband is the one that is in the wrong here-not you and for all your friends to leave you because ‘he’ cheated on ‘you’ goes to show they were never your friends to begin with and you are better off without them. I am sorry your husband cheated but I think you should use this time to put your life into perspective and find some new good friends that support you and care about you as a person along with a guy that doesn’t act like a child.
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Old Dec 04, 2014, 01:49 AM
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Well, Maam. It's up to you to decide. Its very difficult to regain trust, but sometimes there are people who really change for the better -- for the kids, and everyone. If your man is like that, then it would be good. Before you make your final decision, think of your children first.
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Old Dec 12, 2014, 12:22 AM
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I'm so sorry you are dealing with this you don't deserve it. Have you thought about talking to somebody about this?
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