[Wolf429]

Hi. So I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He's super awesome. We have great communication, we can talk about anything. Even my girl problems, which I have to say is pretty fantastic. But since around the end of February I've been having these weird dips in feelings towards him. I'll feel like I don't love him and that I should break up with him. This lasts for about 3 weeks and then I'll be back to loving him. I feel it may have something to do with "the cycle" as it always starts the week before I do, then ends a few days to a week after I end. I'm so confused, it's really exhausting. Living with this feeling for 3 weeks, wanting to just break it off because I don't feeling anything. But I hang on, because I know my true feelings will eventually come back, and that makes it semi-worth it. I do really want to see if anything would help though, as this is taking a toll on my mental energy. Has anyone else felt like this? Anything that you did that could help? Would seeing a gynecologist help? Thanks in advance.

[jelly-bean]

It's possible that your hormones are fluctuating abnormally and that would cause the mood swings. You should probably go to a gynecologist and get checked out to make sure everything is normal or to fix whatever is out of whack.

[hvert]

I find that it's helpful to remind myself that it's probably just a temporary feeling... but if you are only into him one week out of four, maybe there's something else going on? I have strong hormonal feelings too, but they last 3-4 days.