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Dec 20, 2014, 09:33 PM
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MY husband is being really mean to me! We are under tremendous stress because our son is not feeling well. He had a recent injury and hospitalization! It has been very traumatic, Since the episode my husband has shut me out. He is being insensitive and hurtful! Tonight I came home from work and he was drinking and I asked him a question, He said to stop busting his chops! He is so emotionally abusive!! He is punishing me with silence now!!! We have been working on marital issues, been to therapy. The truth is I am the only one who changed! In his mind I was the one with the problem! I feel numb and hurt and scared!!!! I feel physically ill by his nasty treatment! And he yells at me in front of my children! I thought he loved me but it is very obvious he only likes when I am submissive and unchallenging!!! I can't take one more bad thing this week!!!! My son's injury, my mothers depression, my brothers alcoholism my stressful job, and now my husband beating me down!!! I can't take much more! No advice needed. I am a looser!
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#2
Dec 20, 2014, 09:46 PM
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Dec 21, 2014, 01:41 AM
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I don't know the full story of what's happening in your life. But, you're small description also shows that your husband is trying to numb his pain right now with the drinking. It may not be your favorite way of getting away from it all, but it is a technique nevertheless.
My point is that: While your hub came off in a harsh way to you. Perhaps it was the alcohol bringing out his fear & frustration with the situation at home. It is a possibility worth considering. Especially if you are serious about ending your marriage. It's a hard road....no doubt! 
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Dec 21, 2014, 02:54 AM
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I'm so sorry! Your husband is also stressed and scared, and he expresses his fear by being mean to you. Sending you strength and I hope your son is recovering.
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Dec 21, 2014, 10:10 AM
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What a horrible situation. Have you got a family member who you and your son could stay with for a while . I know Christmas makes everything twice as dificult but i think you need to get away for a while . How do youi get on with his family. Could they talk to him. If you have a supportive family you need help from them..
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