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I have been dating on and off for 6 months. Neither of us drive so we do our best. Lately is is distant. He won't cuddle me or kiss me he barely comes over he criticizes every move I make . he Will not commit to me. But days he loves me and takes me to thanksgiving and Christmas. He will not let me look at his phone at all he Denys my friend requests on Facebook. He talks to other woman that are his friends he says. He know I'm lonely and not very happy and he seems like it doesn't matter. I'm confused I love him what should I do?

Well, it's a good thing you aren't ignoring the problem. But at the same time, you don't wanna misunderstand him. If i were you, i would talk to him. Let him know how his actions have made you feel, and listen to his response. It's possible something else is going on outside of your relationship that is causing him to act or feel this way. If he says he does in fact still care, if i were you...i would try couple counseling to strengthen your relationship.

You ask what you should do. I say this gently and with the respect you deserve: Ask yourself why you love someone who does what I have highlighted to you. You deserve better. It sounds like he is either keeping his options open or he is already more deeply involved with one or more of his female friends than he is telling you. Please consider dropping this man and finding someone who will treat you with the attention, honesty and respect you deserve.

Hey Ausmat - just wondering about his tendency to criticize your every move? And - are you sure that you love him? Could it be "attraction" that you experience, rather than love? Do you like him?

Well you said he will not commit to you so he is aloud to see other woman and if you are ok with that then you really can't be looking at his phone and who he chats with .

My advice is go date other guys , why be with just him if he is dating other woman ?
He sounds a bit controlling and it is up to you if that is what you want . If not then you need to let him go and find someone who shows you more respect and not put you down , how is that healthy ?

I say let him go. If he criticizes everything you do, this has nothing to do with you and it's all about him. You do deserve better. You deserve someone worthy of your attention, and someone who has nothing to hide.

He's a jerk, You deserve to be treated with respect and he doesn't seem to understand that word , at all.

Kick him to the curb, please change your password for Facebook, talk to whomever you want to block and delete him from everything, Facebook, any social media, cell phone etc.

It's better to be alone and working on your life to feel better than to be with someone that doesn't respect and love you.

I have to say I agree with the majority of the responses here. If he criticizes your every move he DOES NOT care or respect you. You do deserve to be treated with love and respect by anyone you are in a relationship with. Get out while you can. YOU can do and do deserve better!!!

Jeez, i'm always amazed at what you girls will put up with. I know that the cliche is that women like 'bad boys' but...... Perhaps i've always just been too nice.