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Apr 04, 2007, 09:25 AM
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On the wkend my bf told me he isn't as in love with me as he used to be... and its still getting to me. It was because we had had some issues with ppl interferring and %#@&#! being caused and he said that i'm pushing him away and he feels distanced when I say things about ppl that cause %#@&#!... Like just remarks here and there.. well I was hurt, these things happen. How can he say he doesn't love me as much? And then also said that he does love me and he will love me again that much just has to work on it... *confused*
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Apr 04, 2007, 06:45 PM
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That really sucks, nicole.
I guess he likes and cares about these people and it might have hurt him? I can understand that-I wouldn't want someone I was dating badmouthing somebody I cared about. I'm not saying you badmouthed them, I'm just trying to understand why he would have said that to you. What would have made ME upset enough to say something like that to someone whom I was going out with. Maybe you can be more gentle about your obvious dislike towards these people, even if they are in the wrong, he obviously cares about them and feels protective of them? You have to consider his feelings towards them when you speak about them. Does that help any? ((((((((((Nicole)))))))))) |
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Apr 04, 2007, 09:14 PM
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That is a hurtful thing to hear. I am very sensitive and insecure, and I would be devasted.
(((((((((((((((((((((((Nicole))))))))))))))))))))))
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Apr 04, 2007, 09:55 PM
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yeah i'm very sensitive too
 It was ppl that were saying they wanted us broken up etc and wanted to cause issues. One of them was a close friend of his yes and he didn't want issues being caused anymore.
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Apr 05, 2007, 04:47 PM
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Nicole, hun, I think his priority should be in maintaining a loving relationship with YOU! Sorry to hear that your statements about his friends made him say he "didn't love you as much" now.
Consider how much you care for YOURSELF, and try to step back objectively and assess whether his response was merited or siding with the friends in an unloving way toward you. This could be setting the stage for a lifetime of compromises and hurts toward you from him. Patty |
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