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Old Jan 16, 2015, 02:53 PM
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I had two online friends. Let's call them K and M. They were both excellent friends to me. M told me that I could talk to her about anything. So after a crappy day at school I vented out my feelings of bitterness and frustration and jealousy to her, thinking she would understand. I told her I was jealous and sad because I didn't have one true friend. K heard about this and called me 'toxic', 'mentally abusive' and said that I 'blame her and M for everything'. Then she told me she no longer wanted to be friends with me. I was shocked. She had saved my life once, K had, and I couldn't let go of Her so suddenly. I tried my best to explain everything to her, but she did not want to listen.

Today I visited her page on that website and found out that she has blocked me. I want to explain everything to her but how am I supposed to? We have been online friends for 7-8 months. Very close too. And this is so sudden and abrupt I have no idea what to do. I can't let go of her. I can't. Can someone please give me some advice about all this? What should I do? And if I am to move on, what is the best way of getting over K and M?

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Old Jan 16, 2015, 03:45 PM
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I'm sorry! My guess is that the other person is "toxic"...My best advice is to block them! (and completely ignore them) I'd never trust someone who turned so quickly and was so mean . Don't waste your precious heart on this "loser"

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Old Jan 16, 2015, 09:06 PM
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I agree with Fuzzy.

Yes you can let her go ... She has given you no choice. Friends will come and go, Its part of life. Yes it hurts. I'm sorry. Time will heal that pain.

You will be okay. Do you have friends that your able to actually go do things with?
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Old Jan 17, 2015, 01:07 AM
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Yeah, Christina, I do have a couple of really good friends at school I like a lot, plus now that this online distraction's gone I'll be able to focus on other things better. But she's even got all her FRIENDS to ignore and block me. I was on good terms with two of them. I can't understand why she is doing this.
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