[prennela]

Okay, so i met this guy and we got together but he had to move back to singapore to finish of his training to be a pilot. And im stuck all the way in Perth. Basically its now a long distance relationship. We have been together almost a year now, I have visited him 4 times already and trough out the relationship he has lied to me but i know he has not slept with anyone, Last trip i found out that he has been flirting with a lot of girls on facebook and that he lied to me about some stuff, and I was going to leave him but he told me to stay and he wont do it again, so I did, He said he would give me his facebook password, but after a few weeks he changed it and he said he needs his privacy and he asked me " if i would open his email and bank account" so i said no, and he said that its privacy and he uses facebook to talk to his friends and its private. And he assured me he does not do any flirting anymore, I really love him but Up until now i cant trust him and I keep asking him what he is doing, and I am becoming the "Insecure and clingy" type of girlfriend, im Always wondering what he is doing on facebook and stalking him to see if he is online and i really want to know if he is flirting with girls. I dont know what to do, i dont know what to tell him anymore, and i feel so hurt every day and so worried that he will do it again,

[Bill3]

and that he lied to me about some stuff

What did he lie to you about?

Good luck in finding anyone who dose not flirt with others , you want to keep your man in a box but that is not going to happen .

[ChipperMonkey]

Originally Posted by Nature1968

Good luck in finding anyone who dose not flirt with others , you want to keep your man in a box but that is not going to happen .

Bitter much? Date nothing but scumbags? There are guys out there who won't disrespect their partner like this. You may be OK with your guy leading other women on, but that doesn't mean everyone has to be.

[~Christina]

Relationships are tough and long distance ones just add more pressure. I hope your able to take a step back and really look at your relationship and see if it's worth keeping.

I wish you the best

Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey

Bitter much? Date nothing but scumbags? There are guys out there who won't disrespect their partner like this. You may be OK with your guy leading other women on, but that doesn't mean everyone has to be.

I am not bitter at all not sure why you would even say that to me ??
U don't even know me to make that statement .

[prennela]

Originally Posted by Bill3

What did he lie to you about?

he told he he was with his work mates when he was really meeting his bestie ( a girl) he met in perth that was visiting singapore. I dont understand why cant he just tell me I dont like the fact that he lied. I would not mind him hanging out with her at all. But obviously now I do because if he lied to me it must be because of something going on!

[divine1966]

Originally Posted by Nature1968

Good luck in finding anyone who dose not flirt with others , you want to keep your man in a box but that is not going to happen .

It is untrue. Most married or in committed relationship grown up people do not flirt with others.

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