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Old Feb 03, 2015, 09:03 PM
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so i met this guy on whisper and we were having so much of a connection. It was the first time i exchanged my whatsapp details with someone from there. We continued to talk for 3-4 days after which he asked me out on a date and i accepted it. Now the problem is during the date we weren't so comfortable with each other but i still liked him. He ended the date early and it was disappoining as I wanted to spend more time with him. On reaching home i sent him a message but he still hasn't responded it's been a week. Should i text him again or should i just move on? I really liked him.

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Old Feb 03, 2015, 11:54 PM
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Move on. It sounds like there wasn't a connection on his end. Online dating is like that -you may feel a connection that evaporates once you actually meet the person. Good luck to you!
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Old Feb 04, 2015, 02:22 AM
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You could send him a text just to satisfy yourself. Sometimes people just have a bad week ( i know i just have) so other things may have come up. But if you get no response from that , move on.
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Old Feb 04, 2015, 02:42 AM
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Id sent out a "Thanks I have a very nice time " Leave it at that, Maybe he will respond maybe he wont. But that's it, Time to move on.

It's okay you liked him alot , But your most likely going to like the next guy just as much and he just might be the one or maybe not.

Try to just look at any dates as a nice time out. Don't let yourself like him tooo much off the bat, it takes times to really get to know someone. Just go out , date and simply enjoy going out and meeting new people.
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Old Feb 04, 2015, 08:21 AM
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Since you were the last person to send him a text and he never responded to it, I wouldn't send him anymore texts, a gentleman would have replied if he was interested.
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Old Feb 04, 2015, 06:05 PM
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Since you were the last person to send him a text and he never responded to it, I wouldn't send him anymore texts, a gentleman would have replied if he was interested.
Find a man who doesn't keep you guessing.
A gentleman would have replied even if he wasn't interested...it's just polite...
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Old Feb 04, 2015, 08:12 PM
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I think you should text him again and let him know that you really liked him/had a connection and see what happens.
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Old Feb 04, 2015, 09:23 PM
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Thank you so much guys!

Yeah, I did text him asking how he was. And he replied with a ' im fine'. He didn't even ask me how I was or try to converse with me, pretty sure he doesn't like me at all. I'm going to move on Thanks
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Old Feb 05, 2015, 01:13 PM
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It is plain rude not to respond at all. Passive aggressive. Move on girl!

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