[tngpt17]

I am engaged from the last 2 years and me and my partner know each other from the last 8 years.

I love him a lot.But he always quizzes me about men at work place.I seriously have no kind of affair thing with anyone and not even have exchanged number with anybody.

But today,i felt like i should do suicide as my partner received a Call Logs List of my number.I do not fear about any strange number as i have not talked to any extra numbers.But what i fear is if he had done this today,he will do this later too.I need to always pacify him so that he do not get upset.He really do not trust me after this long relationship too...

I am a very simple girl and fear that it will not be good for our long term marriage....what should i do?

[Seeyalater]

Sounds like he is insecure. It's not you it's him. Maybe he is doing something such as talking to someone else and is trying to turn the tables on you. That's way the finger doesn't get pointed at him. I lived with someone like that for 5 years. There was no reason for the questions he would ask. Later on I found out it was him. He had an affair.

[Bill3]

In what other ways does he show lack of trust, or attempt to control you?

[avlady]

i think he is distrustful, towards you and i would try to either go to counseling or get away from him before you are married. if hes like this now it will only get worse if your married.

[Luned]

Yes, some people are like that.. very little self esteem, very controlling. I am sorry your fiance is doing this to you. I would be careful in your situation, if he is like this now it might get worse when you are married. Like others have said, sometimes people like to transfer their own behavior to their partner. So he might be the one cheating.

[~Christina]

Originally Posted by tngpt17

I am engaged from the last 2 years and me and my partner know each other from the last 8 years.

I love him a lot.But he always quizzes me about men at work place.I seriously have no kind of affair thing with anyone and not even have exchanged number with anybody.

But today,i felt like i should do suicide as my partner received a Call Logs List of my number.I do not fear about any strange number as i have not talked to any extra numbers.But what i fear is if he had done this today,he will do this later too.I need to always pacify him so that he do not get upset.He really do not trust me after this long relationship too...

I am a very simple girl and fear that it will not be good for our long term marriage....what should i do?

The bold print? yes that is the biggest concern, you did nothing wrong, but by allowing him to get that call log makes you """"i felt like i should do suicide""""

If he is making you feel suicidal why are you with him? Why would you stay with him if he isn't willing to just trust you and not have to show paper call logs, The way he is acting is a huge red flag, usually this type of person will become more and more controlling.

I know in your culture things can be different ... is this an arranged marriage by chance?