[jazzzbot]

hey i'm jaz! and well my life used to be awesome! (+i live in Iran)
to really understand what actually happened
u should know that i have a friend who has been more than a friend to me for over 1 year and 10 months now
and almost 2 months ago i found out she felt the same about me after she brutally (!) made me confess my feelings for her she hugged me and whispered in my ear: i kinda wanted to say the same thing!
and that should've been so awesome! i mean how often do u hear i love u back from someone? BUT well things didn't turn out they way we thought they would! i think the first part was our fault cuz we used to talk ALL the time i'm not exaggerating!! i mean it!! like on the phone or text or online and we saw each other at sch everyday of course so yeah i admit it was alot but it's not like we could do anything bout it
but anyway on that same day when we got home we realized that we're not allowed to call or text or any other thing that involved us talkin at home.. we were REALLY desperate well i used to wake her up in the mornings and we would fall asleep while textin(like any other normal besties) but that all stopped for 2 weeks.. but it's not the awful part yet.. the part that kills me the most is that 2weeks after that her mom called mine and said that she thinks we have fallen in love and our thing needs to be stopped(well i told u i live in Iran so it's pretty normal for parents to act like this :// ) and u know what?? my mom thought the same!! she went through all of our texts and my files on the PC and did all kinds of crazy without even telling me !! she wanted to change my sch to not see her again both of our moms thought that(which is true)and wanted to change it so i used my super skills in convincing ppl and tried to convince my mom that we're just friends cuz i CAN'T tell her the truth and i guess she believed it but her mom didn't and my stupid girlfriend cries everyday and does pretty stupid stuff last night she went to emergency for a heart cardiac and things are goin like so crazy and i absolutely don't know what to do about our parents...
PS ok WOW it was LONG!! super sorry

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[sideblinded]

jazzzbot, Hello and welcome to PC. I am glad that you joined our community as it is very supportive. I am sorry that you are having a lot of problems with your relationship. I hope that you can keep reaching out and I am sure there will be others here who can relate. Best wishes.

[healingme4me]

Welcome to PC. Sounds like anxiety related, for your friend. Hope is ok. Can imagine, the stress of it all. And changing your routine from the bond you share with your friend. I know from a chat once, with someone here, that came from there, even seeing kids play on a playground was a cultural shock, yet appreciative of seeing. It's not easy conforming to expectations that don't fulfill your internal desires. Glad you can reach out for support.

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[kaliope]

hi hazzzbot
i am sorry that this has happened. it is sad that parents do not understand. the fortunate thing is that you will not be under your parents roof forever and as long as you can remain knowing eachohters where abouts as soon as you are out of your parents home, you can reunite. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome

[BeaFlower]

Hi jaz and welcome! I'm really sorry for you and for your friend. Hope that you can at least see each other at school or in other places, maybe with other friends, though it's not the same thing. I don't know how old you are, but there will be a moment when you'll can do what you want also if parents don't agree...though surely it's hard to have to wait. Hope that you'll find support here, and that also your friend has support somewhere.