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Old Feb 22, 2015, 04:05 AM
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I got money but still can't get laid. How I wish I had someone to talk to, I'm in an awful way .

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Old Feb 22, 2015, 07:17 AM
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I am very sorry you feel this way. Are you interested in dating relationship or just physical? Based on that would you try dating sites? I am sorry you are sad hugs


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Old Feb 22, 2015, 07:27 AM
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Thanks. Both. I'm on online dating but it's a bit of waste of time. I guess I just don't have what women want.
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Old Feb 22, 2015, 07:31 AM
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This sucks I can relate in a sense that I can meet men but they are always awfully wrong for me but where are those right ones who knows lol

What might help is spend time with more friends. Join some hobby groups. I join several meet up groups and now am too busy to constantly worry about meeting a man, have you tried that? You are in UK? Do they have meetup?

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Old Feb 22, 2015, 09:13 AM
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Yep, I do all that plus volunteering. I spend days out in London but I'm fed up with my own company and watching couples holding hands etc just makes me feel worse. Really feel that life isn't worth living without someone to share it with. But women don't like me. My name's Peter but I feel like Ann, Ann Athema to women. Ha ha.
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Old Feb 22, 2015, 10:59 AM
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I am sorry. There must be somebody out there for you. I don't have advice as my personal life is usually a mess one way or the other but I believe there must be somebody out there for everybody hugs

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Old Feb 22, 2015, 11:16 AM
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I'm sorry to hear you feel low. I totally understand what you say about wanting company and how seeing people holding hands makes you feel more lonely. I agree with what divine1966 says, it's important to find happiness on your own as a first step. That will radiate out and attract others towards you. I've tried on-line dating on and off for several years. My experience is that you have to invest quite a lot of time searching strategically for people who have similar characteristics to you. Then your changes of success are increased. Also you have to be develop a thick skin and not worry when people reject you. It is a filtering process, which will hopefully lead to the selection of a soul mate. I would also advise trying off-line dating. Above all, I think you have to keep your faith and keep going. In the end it you will find someone that is truly right for you
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I got money but still can't get laid. How I wish I had someone to talk to, I'm in an awful way .
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Old Feb 25, 2015, 02:47 PM
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I tried that for him. Lived with him for a month and cleaned every day and tidied up. There was a problem. My fault, I believe? What I saw as unimportant things, he had an emotional attachment to. I am sure some people think I could throw away a lot more. Also I have lived with very tidy/neat people and am that way myself. I have married and dated ex-servicemen and they are trained to be very neat. I found I was imposing my values on him and that can never work.

We parted as friends and still keep regular contact, even though I am now 100 miles away. He has been to mine for a week and met some of the family, but we are a bit too far for us to meet up weekly. Ptang is a lovely guy and would make a great partner for many women who were not as 'an*l about cleaning as I am. I started dating early in my teens and had to kiss and marry many frogs before finally finding my prince. The later one starts dating in life, the harder it is to find a suitable mate.

So Ptang, keep on trying. keep on doing what you do, and your princess will appear. You may have to cast your net wider, but I know you will find her one day. x
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 04:07 AM
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Aw shucks, you're not so bad yourself. Hopefully come summer and the warmer weather my problems will be resolved , in a good way and I will have found a lady . Maybe paid online dating is the way to go. 'Fraid the place is getting in bit of a state again. What am I like!!! Last relationship fizzled out and left me a bit demotivated but I guess that's life. There is a programme on tv here in the UK called 'the undateables'. Maybe I should go on that haha. They seem to have more success than I do.
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