[LeHungry]

How subtle can one be in using Pavlov techniques to get a required behaviour to happen.

I consider myself to be very good-looking and girls are shy around me.

I have tried standing with good open posture, listening to their stories, smiling a lot and laughing, playing with my slick back hair, sitting next to them in class, talking about aeroplanes (maybe the reference to s e x will be enough to get them aroused) gentle leg touches which they think are random.

Anything else I could try?

I also suffered from a hallucination as a young child which I thought was real for a very long time. I suffer from fear of everything and in particular when I am outside. I am also very suspicious.

Thanks,
LeHungry

[Mike_J]

I don't think trying Pavlov techniques on girls is a good idea. Not sure how it would work, would you give them a piece of chocolate every time they displayed behavior you desired?

You sound like you are fairly young, just be an honest genuine person, that will work better in the long run than any mind games you could play.

[pegasus]

Originally Posted by LeHungry

How subtle can one be in using Pavlov techniques to get a required behaviour to happen.

I consider myself to be very good-looking and girls are shy around me.

I have tried standing with good open posture, listening to their stories, smiling a lot and laughing, playing with my slick back hair, sitting next to them in class, talking about aeroplanes (maybe the reference to s e x will be enough to get them aroused) gentle leg touches which they think are random.

Anything else I could try?

I also suffered from a hallucination as a young child which I thought was real for a very long time. I suffer from fear of everything and in particular when I am outside. I am also very suspicious.

Thanks,
LeHungry

Hello LeHungry, welcome to Psych Central.

If you started talking about aeroplanes and randomly touched my leg, I would think you were a creep! No salivating here!

Originally Posted by LeHungry

Anything else I could try?

How about dropping all those contrived efforts at manipulation and be yourself?

If you're as good looking as you think you are they should be fawning all over you.

[eskielover]

I have tried standing with good open posture, listening to their stories, smiling a lot and laughing, playing with my slick back hair, sitting next to them in class, talking about aeroplanes (maybe the reference to s e x will be enough to get them aroused) gentle leg touches which they think are random.

Honestly I would think you were a creep that I would want NOTHING to do with.....as for gentle leg touches....YOU ARE INVADING THEIR PERSONAL SPACE...STAY OUT if you know what's good for you & don't want to end up getting slapped.

As for mentioning SEX....got news for you not everyone is only interested in it even through society wants to try & make you think so. If you want to attract sluts.....that's what you will get with that behavior....if you want to get real girls for a real friend.....YOU HAVE TO BE REAL yourself.....this behavior IS NOT BEING REAL.

[divine1966]

Mentioning of sex doesn't get women aroused lol. "Subtle" leg touches would not get you far either. Just be yourself.

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[toolman65]

Why don't you actually try listening to what they are saying instead of trying all this Don Juan bs?

Seduction of a woman begins between her ears, not her legs.

You will get nowhere with a woman (using Pavlov or no) if she views you as creepy, superficial, obvious and vulgar.

Act like a gentleman to ALL women, whether you find them attractive or not. This will make you far more successful than any amount of preening.