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Old Mar 11, 2015, 01:45 PM
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I feel like he don't want me around when he is with his friends. I just want to cry when he runs to his friends house because I am not welcome. That kills me I just want to be friends with his friends so we have at least a few people in common.
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Old Mar 11, 2015, 03:34 PM
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I can understand how you would feel left out. Have you told him how you feel? Are they doing things that he doesn't think you would approve of such as drinking and going to bars? This is just me but I would be very suspect if it was me. It doesn't seem like you are being unreasonable. Explain to him how important it is to you. Does he hang out with you and your friends?
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Old Mar 11, 2015, 03:37 PM
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How about you running to your friends and him not be invited?


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Old Mar 11, 2015, 04:23 PM
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I try to include him in everything I do with my friends but he still gets mad
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Old Mar 11, 2015, 06:20 PM
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I think guys like to have guy time, you know like going to the pub or just chilling with their mates. Just as girls like to have a girls night out or a chat about girl stuff. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. You don't want to scare him off by restricting him, let him enjoy his mates, trust him and he will then trust you.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 01:37 AM
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I've had the same issues with my boyfriend for 3 years. Don't get me wrong, we do alot together but I always feel like I'm last on the list and he'd drop anything to go be with those guys. In fact, havnt seen him all day, granted I was at work but he our puppy is sick and he just text me to tell me he is going out again tonight to play pool after just getting back from a bar an hour away from our home. I'm soo frustrated.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 11:58 AM
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Pegasus there has been things go on that make me trust him. but its every time he goes to see his friend jeff that was my friend before his i hate this
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