[AmbraCaruso]

This is supposed to be a friend of my fathers who I met at 13. I am now 26. He literally freaks out if I don't text him every morning and night. When he sees me he gets kinda weird like flirty but egotistical. He's gray, balding, has bloody skin sores, smells like puke crap and beer. He used to annoy me so bad because every time he saw me he pulled a camera out to take a picture of me. Even at family parties, I felt bad so I invited him over. He would try to sneak pics of me eating. I asked him why he was so obsessed with me and he literally about broke a cell phone in half. I said I'm married now and even when I wasn't you ruined every relationship I had. I don't know how the hell to get away from hom. The most sick part is this man is my godfather in the church. He gives me no spiritual guidance and never has. He drinks all the time and a couple years ago he would ask me sexual / personal questions. another issue is I live next door to the damn pervert and I have a son whom I keep in the house most of the time. This man tells me how he likes 15 year old girls and I even found photos he took of little girls about 7-8 years old in cheer leading outfits. He's gross and I don't know how to move out of here. I'm so threatened I feel if I wanna move he may try to kill me so I rather sneak away from the state. Period! Any advice on this twisted mess?

[sideblinded]

AmbraCaruso, Hello and welcome to PC. I would definitely brake ties with this man. He is not healthy for you.

He sounds a bit like a

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sexual pervert

Please get it changed that he is your god father. Please run, girl. You can place a restraining order on him if he is bothering you or stalking you. I hope that you do get away from him for your sake and your families. Best wishes.

[healingme4me]

Anonymous tips work well, if he has what it sounds like he may have on his computer

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[Bill3]

He literally freaks out if I don't text him every morning and night.

I am puzzled as to why you are texting him so much.

[toolman65]

These are serious allegations, what is your evidence?

Right now, if the police were to be involved, nothing would happen because this is a he said / she said situation.

Gather evidence. keep your texts. write down what you have posted here. Does he act this way with others? Does he post his thoughts online? Has anyone else witnessed his actions? Have you told other people what he has done?

Don't go to his place, don't invite him into your's. Never, ever , be alone with him again. Carry your cell phone at all times. Change your locks.

Being your godfather is meaningless. You are an adult. He has no legal authority/ standing over you. You do not have to have anything to do with him.

Make contact with a women's shelter. Not only will they give you advice, they can also be on standby if things get hostile.

Finally.......Where is your husband in all this?

If the guy freaks you out, why are you even dealing with him? I've shut off peeps for a lot less.

[AbsurdBlackBear]

This is so disgusting. I would definitely cut ties from this person and I hope you'll be able to get away from him. I'm sorry that this person became a part of your life.

[divine1966]

Texting morning and night? Thats kind of strange. Unless you are in a relationship who texts or expects it that often?

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[johncarrol]

add him to the black list