[detour1]

Hi I have a little problem ,It started yesterday morning when I was trying to say hi to me ,he was walking by me and when he saw me he turn his head away from me he turned his head to his friend ,and he did not wave back to me,I had to go in front of him to get a high five ,he gave me one and that was it. Then I later that day I asked him if we can walk to the buses together ,he said I guess so ,(kind of in a grumpy way but not angry) but when I came out of my class I think he was going to take off but when he saw me he waited.
Today it was even worst When we were going out to the buses ,I went to see him ,we walked out together ,he did not talk to me ,just said Hi in a quiet voice and I said you are my best friend and he said you are my best friend too but in a quiet voice. I don't think I did anything to upset him ,or anything.

What should I do? Please help ,Not feeling very good right now

[healingme4me]

Can you call him?

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[detour1]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

Can you call him?

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Hi I do have his number but I would l like to do it in person
I will be seeing him tommrrow
What should I say to him

[healingme4me]

Maybe casually ask how it's going. Is he stressed about any exams or papers?

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[detour1]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

Maybe casually ask how it's going. Is he stressed about any exams or papers?

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He just took MCAS last week that is a test
But does it sound like something I did

[healingme4me]

Not really. There could be numerous reasons his attention was diverted. For instance, if involved with sports or online gaming, making sure he caught connection with his other friend could have been most important. To say you are his best friend, to me, says he's not snubbing you. Did something happen in school to you recently to create such a sensitivity to believe your best friend feels differently?

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[detour1]

Hi i do not think so but I told him what I did this weekend
I sold something on eBay and I said I was sneaky and just used a express box and stuck in a bubble mailer and I said it says it was illgeal to do so and I told him it was not they just put that there to scare you. It's only a box. And nothing else happen between us

[healingme4me]

Worrying about being judged is certainly enough to heighten sensitivity. I'm not overly familiar with why bubble wrap in an express box is sneaky nor possibly a law breaker, but could turn into a positive future discussion between the two of you about sales and ethics. Not with righteousness undertones, of course, but just what to expect and how to behave from this point forward.

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[detour1]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

Worrying about being judged is certainly enough to heighten sensitivity. I'm not overly familiar with why bubble wrap in an express box is sneaky nor possibly a law breaker, but could turn into a positive future discussion between the two of you about sales and ethics. Not with righteousness undertones, of course, but just what to expect and how to behave from this point forward.

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Do you think he will ever talk to me again ?

[healingme4me]

Well he did say you are his best friend, too.

Does he not approve with what you sold?

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[detour1]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

Well he did say you are his best friend, too.

Does he not approve with what you sold?

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Hi yes he said I am his best friend too and he kind of gave me a small back hug

[healingme4me]

Since this ebay thing only happened this weekend, it's still midweek. He's a teen boy, they aren't drama equipped, to be honest. The change in weather is tiring. Sounds like all will be ok.

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[detour1]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

Since this ebay thing only happened this weekend, it's still midweek. He's a teen boy, they aren't drama equipped, to be honest. The change in weather is tiring. Sounds like all will be ok.

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I hope so but is it okay to put the express box in a bubblemailer and send it first lass. Do you think he mad at that

[healingme4me]

I'm sure you can send a box inside a bubble envelope. The question arises about what the customer is charged. Which could have potential to null the sale and void your account, but I haven't sold on ebay in years. The customer may or may not complain, which is the uncertainty.
Your friend may have posed concern trying to prevent you from future struggles. Not sure. That you may need to ask him directly.

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[divine1966]

I don't think he would care about how you mail eBay items. But if he does ask him about it why does it bother him so much?

You sound as you are in high school? I teach high school and these type of mood changes and drama is somewhat normal for teenage years. He might just snap out of it. Are you just friends or romantically involved?

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[detour1]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

Well he did say you are his best friend, too.

Does he not approve with what you sold?

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Hi I talked to him today and this morning was the same ,so I told my teacher ,because I was upset and my teacher will take me to my cousellor at school. but she was not in today ,so later in the day it went okay ,he came around talking to me. my teacher said everything turn out okay ,if my cousellor back my teacher is going to have me talk to her ,to see what is casse this guilte. I take paxil ,I am wondering if paxil could be causing these ? is it possible ?

[healingme4me]

I'm not truly familiar with paxil, I do know if a youth is on such meds, it's better at a very low dose. Guilt as an emotion, I don't believe is med related, but anxiety can be, as well as the lows of a depressive episode.
It's great that he's back to talkative. Sometimes, when feeling low, the smallest of slights can feel insurmountable.

Is this your counselor outside of school or in school? I think it's wonderful that your teacher is involved. Do you have an educational plan that accommodates for when you feel like you do? My friend's daughter has one to help her when she has anxiety moments.



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[detour1]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

I'm not truly familiar with paxil, I do know if a youth is on such meds, it's better at a very low dose. Guilt as an emotion, I don't believe is med related, but anxiety can be, as well as the lows of a depressive episode.
It's great that he's back to talkative. Sometimes, when feeling low, the smallest of slights can feel insurmountable.

Is this your counselor outside of school or in school? I think it's wonderful that your teacher is involved. Do you have an educational plan that accommodates for when you feel like you do? My friend's daughter has one to help her when she has anxiety moments.



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Hi I have two counsellor one in school and one outside of school. I do have an iep and when I am feeling that way I can. see the counselor at school. Should I talk to my doctor about this ? Thanks

[divine1966]

Do you have a case manager as a student with iep? I am a special Ed high school teacher and students on my case load do ask for my help for personal matters. If I can't help I refer them to counselor. Talk to your case manager and yes talk to your doctor too and many hugs to you!

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[detour1]

Hi is a case manager , I am in Sped education in my school

[healingme4me]

There's a wide array of inclusion where special needs are concerned within the districts that I have familiarity with.
I agree about speaking to your case manager. And it's truly up to your parents/guardians to address with your pediatrician any concerns regarding paxil.

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[detour1]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

There's a wide array of inclusion where special needs are concerned within the districts that I have familiarity with.
I agree about speaking to your case manager. And it's truly up to your parents/guardians to address with your pediatrician any concerns regarding paxil.

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Hi I am hoping to talk to the counselor tomorrow at my school ,to get this fixed!

[healingme4me]

Originally Posted by detour1

Hi I am hoping to talk to the counselor tomorrow at my school ,to get this fixed!

That's a positive step. Hoping you can gain the coping skills that you need in case you are faced in a similar scenario in the future .

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[detour1]

Thnakyou for all your help

[healingme4me]

You are welcome

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