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Old Apr 25, 2015, 05:58 PM
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Hi I been friends for a about 4 months and I really like him and we are both males. We played cards one time together ,he really enjoys that. School is also almost out. And I really want to hang out with him. I am going to miss him. I feel hopeless about this. He Is the quiet type and not sure if he would hang out with me. How can I kind of talk him into hanging out with me.

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Old Apr 25, 2015, 06:37 PM
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Hi I been friends for a about 4 months and I really like him and we are both males. We played cards one time together ,he really enjoys that. School is also almost out. And I really want to hang out with him. I am going to miss him. I feel hopeless about this. He Is the quiet type and not sure if he would hang out with me. How can I kind of talk him into hanging out with me.

Can you just directly ask him "hey come over on Sunday to play or watch or do (insert what you guys like to do). See what he says?

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Old Apr 27, 2015, 05:52 AM
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Yeah, I would invite him over for a specific day and time to play cards again.
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Old Apr 27, 2015, 05:58 AM
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Yeah, I would invite him over for a specific day and time to play cards again.
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Do you think he wants to hang out with me too ?

What are the signs I should look for that he wants to hang out with me ?
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Old Apr 27, 2015, 06:47 AM
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Do you think he wants to hang out with me too ?


What are the signs I should look for that he wants to hang out with me ?

You never know unless you ask. I wouldn't look for signs as it could be deceiving

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Old Apr 27, 2015, 07:16 AM
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You never know unless you ask. I wouldn't look for signs as it could be deceiving

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Hi how should I word the invitation to invite him over to play cards ?

also if I invite him over do you think he will come over if he is quiet?
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Old Apr 27, 2015, 09:15 AM
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Hi how should I word the invitation to invite him over to play cards ?


also if I invite him over do you think he will come over if he is quiet?

Just ask him. We can't know if he comes or not

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Old Apr 28, 2015, 05:24 AM
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I thought what Divine1966 posted was good. 'Hey, want to come over <<Day>> afternoon to play cards again?'

If he says no, say 'what about <<Different Day>>>? Or is there some other day that's better?'
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