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Old May 03, 2007, 11:08 AM
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I want HIM out of my house, and I've been trying to coax him to leave for the past two days. He knocked me on the ground last night for nothing...literally, I did nothing. I had a smile on my face and was happy....I still have no idea what set him off. Then today with my back turned he punched me in the back then kicked me off the bed. Because I didn't get up the second he wanted me too. In actuality I was laying there hoping he would discuss moving out of my %#@&#! house with me.

I've taken to much, and it was apparent this morning when I finally fought back. I think it's might %#@&#! %#@&#! to fight somebody while they have their back turned. He's a little *****, it's all obvious now. It felt good to make him coward like a little ***** this once.

I'm on the verge of breaking, I can't stand much more

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Old May 03, 2007, 12:11 PM
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What's with the "coax" -- call the police/another male, anyone who can THROW him out. Find out how to get him out and a restraining order, etc. Do you have a T or someone you trust who can help you with finding a lawyer/help? A women's shelter (which will probably have all that info too)?
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Old May 03, 2007, 01:37 PM
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call 911 have the cops remove him then get a protection from abuse order on him, you need to do this for you and the children, they could be next
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Old May 03, 2007, 03:44 PM
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Boyfriend or husband?

Either way change the locks and get a restraining order...See other advice under "Husband's Ex..." for more information posted by me if you are married...
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Old May 03, 2007, 06:41 PM
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desirae, do something ASAP. the law is on your side. throw him to the curb. police officers handle this type of situation constantly. and they instruct you on how to handle a restraing order (yes, i watch "Cops") and other things that will help you. xoxoxo pat
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Des, get rid of him now, please. You're going to end up in jail for battery 'cause the little punk could end up crying to the cops on you. Get rid of him, like people have said YOU call the police. Don't put up with his crap. He may be jealous because you're bettering yourself and he just wants to kick you down so he can feel superior to you. Is there a relative you and your kids can stay with? Please, get yourselves away from him. ((((((((Des&Kids))))))))
Your kids don't need to be seeing their Mom being beaten up on like that by their Dad. OR vice versa. It's not good for them, Des. Please, take care.
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Old May 04, 2007, 12:35 AM
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There are resources out there to get help. 1-800-799-7233 That is the National Domestic hotline. They helped me ages ago in 1996.
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Old May 04, 2007, 01:40 AM
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I agree, get the cops involved!
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Old May 04, 2007, 09:58 AM
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((( Des ))) Please get some help with this. I agree that you should call the cops or something. You don't deserve this and neither do you children. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old May 05, 2007, 05:00 PM
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des hon don't fight back. they can take you to jail too if you fight him. no one deserves to be hit. don't ask him to move tell him to move or you leave.
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Old May 07, 2007, 12:45 AM
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Get a lawyer, file a restraining order, please do something. Are there guns in the house? Please be careful.
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Old May 08, 2007, 04:49 PM
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Desirae2 - how are you doing?
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