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Old May 18, 2015, 04:45 PM
detour1 detour1 is offline
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Hi there
it started this morning when i saw him in the hall. I waved to him and he nobs his head ,nothing else. then later on i saw him and he just says hi ,i think he was trying to avoid me or something ,he turns his head back and just look straight. then i asked him if we can walk to the next class together and he shake his head yes then he says bye. then when the next class started we walked to the next class together still not much talking but he did asked me if i did anything this weekend and i said no and i asked if he did anything and he shakes his no. then later on last block on saw him and he says hi to me ,i asked him we can walk to the bus together and he says yeah. then when the class almost over he walk by and says hi then my name and i single come on over and he did and he says i have to get my glasses and he did and when the bell rang ,he waited for me. then we walked out of the school and i asked if i could sit with him tomorrow and he says umm maybe ,i might be busy studying and helping other people. things got silent. when i said bye ,he did not answer and he barely gave me a high five. not sure if he just lied to me or not

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Old May 18, 2015, 05:22 PM
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Could be just an off day. Could have been tired or sick or something. Don't panic yet.
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Old May 18, 2015, 05:48 PM
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I agree, he's probably having an off day. I wouldn't worry about whether or not things are cool between the two of you, I'd worry about whether or not he is ok. If you care about him as a friend, and he is down the next time you see him, let him know you are there for him if he wants to talk. He might just need someone to turn to.
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Old May 19, 2015, 07:06 AM
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Hi things got worst today
Today he did not say one word to me
He talked to his friends not me
Life is not worth living
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Old May 19, 2015, 07:59 AM
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No idea what's going on? Ask his other friend maybe?
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Old May 19, 2015, 08:37 AM
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Hi his friends do not like me , his friend ask me to stay away from him. He told his friend that and he told my and his counsellor that and then she told me but I
Can still talk to my friend
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Old May 19, 2015, 06:22 PM
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If things are not going well with this friend right now, are there other people you can talk to? Another friend or family member? If he needs space right now, maybe you can focus on other relationships for a little while.
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Old May 19, 2015, 09:07 PM
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Yes. I have friends like this too detour1. Yes. Maybe it is an off day arundelle. Good point ChipperMonkey. I should ask my friends if they are okay too.
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