[jarajaramelon]

title says it

[divine1966]

What party? Whose party? Which care provider? What type of care? Not enough information. You can invite whoever you want to your parties but we need more info to answer better

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[jarajaramelon]

Originally Posted by divine1966

What party? Whose party? Which care provider? What type of care? Not enough information. You can invite whoever you want to your parties but we need more info to answer better

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

a birthday party from me, and a careprovider from a clinic hostel.

[SFVQ]

I personally feel that it would be violating certain boundaries. If you're talking about a therapist or counselor, I would specifically avoid that. then again, I don't know your specific situation. But sounds like an interesting dilemma! What makes you choose specifically to invite him or her?

[Frankbtl]

Hi jarajaramelon, well birthday coming up........so happy birthday in advance!!
And I go along with you can invite whoever you want to your party!!
Although please don't be disappointed if they aren't able to come, there may be protocols in place which mean that they aren't able to.
But........very nice thought from you to invite them, so just go ahead and see what happens (even if it only results in them being flattered that you'd invite them ).
Alison

[jarajaramelon]

Originally Posted by SFVQ

I personally feel that it would be violating certain boundaries. If you're talking about a therapist or counselor, I would specifically avoid that. then again, I don't know your specific situation. But sounds like an interesting dilemma! What makes you choose specifically to invite him or her?

i really love him. and it's really hard because everyone says it's impossible and i'd gladly find someone else.. but "someone else" doesn't automatically fall out of the air. i tried to seek contact with my old lovers but i already ruined that contact completely, plus, i don't want to go after "someone like him" if you get what i mean. i've had it before too that i just liked someone because he looked like someone.

it's hard because i am really stupid in that sort of situations when liking someone and if he'd accept that all it'd be nice.

i kept holding on to the fact our last phonecall was very sweet, and he said he saw me as a sis. still i want to be awesome for him too.

on the clinic hostel, it seems like a sort of taboo for everyone for me to like him. but i think if he actually likes me on a friendly way he can come to my party right?