[seawhale]

In brief, I met her by chance on a public event and talked with her for a while, about twenty minutes, this was the first and only time I even talked or seen her.

I admire the girl and I got her Facebook profile, (she is not my friend), and don't want to add her not to appear as a creepy guy.

I want to send her a message telling her about my feelings and that I want to get to know her more because I am looking for my life partner.

Any advice?

[scorpiosis37]

Telling her that you have feelings for her and are looking for your life partner-- after only meeting her once!-- would probably scare her. Instead, I would say something very casual like "Hey, I enjoyed meeting you at the event. I'd love to grab a drink sometime and get to know you better if you're interested."

[ComfortablyNumb5]

Originally Posted by scorpiosis37

Telling her that you have feelings for her and are looking for your life partner-- after only meeting her once!-- would probably scare her. Instead, I would say something very casual like "Hey, I enjoyed meeting you at the event. I'd love to grab a drink sometime and get to know you better if you're interested."

Deff agree here. You don't want to come off so strong. It may scare her away. I would msg her and keep it casual. If the convo goes good then add her as a friend and go from there. Good luck!

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