[iamanders]

Hi!
I have to serious questions on relationships:
1. People often tell me that in order to form a relationship with someone it is very important to find something you have in common. What then should it be that you have in common? An opinion you have about sonething or an activity, eg enjoying snooker, or what? What kind of thing is that you're supposed to find?

2. If you go to a pub and play, eg darts, there is a chance that you will meet new people. And all of you like darts. Let's say that instead of darts you like taking long walks near a lake or in the forest as long as you meet person you like. Is it possible to meet peo that way or the pub the only alternative?

[divine1966]

Well pub clearly isn't the only alternative as many people never go to pubs/ bars and never played darts lol yet they meet others

meeting people just walking by the lake might be impossible and frankly dangerous but you can meet people in hiking groups and various other social clubs that involve outdoors and walking by lakes and woods. You can look up online

Things in common ..., common values are important. Other than that they don't need to like same activities but I personally do not connect and do not date people who don't read books do not like culture do not enjoy learning new things or going places do not like discussing various events etc in that sense yea I need things in common. But they don't need to be specific like they don't need to read same books or like same movies, just as a general idea

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