[lovethesun]

Has anyone ever felt this way? I finally was successful in distancing a controlling, manipulative, bullying, backstabbing and downright scary woman from my life as well as my daughter's. Yay!!! But she still stares at me in the neighborhood, gives me a "fake" wave and has probably smeared my name to pieces with neighbors, other families at the school and who knows who else. And making herself out to be the victim for sure. So on the one hand, I'm free of this woman because we never talk anymore, but on the other hand I feel like this woman is still lurking in the background and I feel terrible anxiety over it which makes me feel that I'm still controlled to some degree. My husband refuses to move so I'm stuck having to see this mean person alot. Ugh!!! I just wish I could move away. I still feel controlled just by this woman's presence. And watching her smile and control other people with her "I'll do you a favor and you can pay me back" game while people fall for it makes me sick. I just want to scream, "Don't be fooled! She's a wolf in sheep's clothing!" Has anyone else been in a situation like this?

[~Christina]

Is this the person "Nancy" that talked about in your other thread regrading Facebook? If it is, just go about your life. You can't control other people around you but you can control your reaction to them.

She will get bored and move on the annoy someone else.

Yes. I have someone like that in my life. It is a nightmare. I feel for you and so sorry you have to deal with it too. Try not to look at her or walk around the block to avoid her. It's best to keep your distance from psychos like that.

[lovethesun]

Originally Posted by ~Christina

Is this the person "Nancy" that talked about in your other thread regrading Facebook? If it is, just go about your life. You can't control other people around you but you can control your reaction to them.

She will get bored and move on the annoy someone else.

Yes, it's the same person. Sorry to keep posting about this, but this person has affected so many areas of my life. I've honestly never met anyone so toxic in my life. I feel like the only way to cope with the anxiety, sadness and pain that this person causes me is to open it up to other people on this forum and seek solace in the advice and comfort that this sight and the people on it offer. Thanks for your advice.

[lovethesun]

Originally Posted by Sizzling

Yes. I have someone like that in my life. It is a nightmare. I feel for you and so sorry you have to deal with it too. Try not to look at her or walk around the block to avoid her. It's best to keep your distance from psychos like that.

Thanks for this advice. And thanks for letting me know that I'm not the only one who feels this womans actions are loony.