How fast are relationships supposed to move? Does this mean he's not attracted to me?

Exactly, divine. Three dates is way too early in the game to start expecting anything long term. That was the point I was trying to make. His real nature is sure to come out with time, and if he's anxious or unsure, he may also not yet give compliments. He needs TIME. He keeps calling and making dates. That alone tells me he's interested. He's just a slow mover. Something there is not enough of in a lot of guys these days.