[kaynaya001]

Moving on, living your life, writing especially, is being "extremely combatative"?

If they try and turn the idea of you, moving on, living a life, writing, into you being at war with them, insulting their manhood, when you really don't care~ How do you prove you're really not combatative?

Especially when all his friends say its being selfish on your part? Selfish because he threatens to do something terrible, which effects everyone, and he's not responsible for his behavior? Yeah its true I used to question his manhood a lot, I used to get in fights with him, but why should i keep falling in the same trap where I of being his victim? being responsible for his behavior, on account of threats, and then allowing him to threaten all the time?

I'm sick of being a victim, having a victim mentality, and never being able to escape this kind of black manipulation.

[TishaBuv]

Literally take the high road and leave. He will say anything to manipulate you. You don't need to prove anything, and the only way to stop being combative is to stop fighting. He's messing with your mind.

If you can avoid him do so. Remove him from your life and his friends and go forward. That should take care of it. (((hugs)))

[healingme4me]

Originally Posted by kaynaya001

How do you prove you're really not combatative?

Especially when all his friends say its being selfish on your part? victim? being responsible for his behavior, on account of threats, and then allowing him to threaten all the time?
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It is not your responsibility to prove a thing. Why listen to his friends?

Threatening? To do what? Bring harm? You have legal recourse if that's the case.

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