Well I have just about had it. Some of you may remember that I recently broke up with my fiancee, as I wasn't ready for the relationship AT ALL... and it just did not feel right.

Well now I am getting threatening phone calls from the ex's parents, calling me a f-ing bi***, saying that I used him, that they are going to come down and find us, they know where we live, ect....

We are having the number blocked as of monday but he has cut me out of his life too so I can't even contact him(we were on semi good terms and then he just dissapeared from my contacts)to talk about this.

I know it shouldn't bother me, because I know I did not use him, I know that when I went into it I had a very honest idea that I wanted to be with him. It just didn't work out right and it wouldn't have been right to stay with him just for the sake of him.

*sigh* I don't get some people.

[(JD)]

Grrr and how scary! I hope you have the phone company fully informed, and not just blocking the calls! Make sure you have a written complaint of the harassment, as that is illegal to use the phone for that! Make sure you make a police report... maybe it goes under "incident report?" Not sure. But show them the phone company report and also give them the details of the threat to come to your home. It's better to be safe than sorry. Many ppl scream idle threats because they never learned how to handle disappointment, anger, and the feelings of reproach. Some ppl do follow through, and that's what you want to be prepared for... ((((rainbowzz))

[sabby]

So sorry this is happening to you (((((((((Rainbowzz))))))))))))

_Sky is 100% right. She knows her stuff!

Hope everything turns out ok for you hon. Most importantly....be safe!

Hugssss
J

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[SeptemberMorn]

I would do exactly what Sky said! How scary for you! Please stay safe.

[SongBirdandDaisy]

Rainbowzz

I am so proud of you for seeing that this relationship is not what you wanted it to be and being able to do what you needed to do by breaking off the engagement! Kudos!

Major Hugs, Songbird

[tranquility]

Ditto to Sky - please make sure you get a police report. Hopefully it won't come to that, but you need to make sure you are covered. You may even be able to get a restraining order based on the calls - definately probably could if you've taped them (although I'm not sure if taping is legal in your state).

Tranquility

[okiedokie]

Sky was right on the money. I'm so sorry you have to go thru this! Aren't you glad you decided not to marry into this family?!
Take good care,
Okie

Thanks everyone. I have decided that the best thing is to file what was called an incident report, just in case. Haven't gotten anymore calls myself but they threatened my roomate again the other night at four am. It is just ridiculous and childish if you ask me.

[meander]

((((Rainbowzz)))))

Think you did the right thing there, keep safe.