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I've been talking to this girl for a while and overtime we became comfortable and started sharing very personal things with each other. We met for the first time Friday. We spent all day and night together. I stayed at her house. The next morning everything was fine. She had to go to her parent's house to do somethings and I started begging her to let me come. At the time I didn't realize I was begging and it upset her because she has anxiety problems. I never felt worse in my life when I looked over and saw her crying. Now she won't talk to me at all. I've apologized countless times but it doesn't seem to help. I'm not desperate to date or talk to someone but I want to get to know her more than anyone else I've ever met in my life and now I screwed it up and don't know if we'll talk anymore.
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Apologize to her. Hopefully she'll understand that you meant no harm. I don't think she was upset due to anxiety but rather due to things moving way too fast. At the same time she might lack good judgement. She allowed a strange man to stay with her overnight. It is wise to take things slow
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You could send her flowers with a nice note and then wait a while and hope for the best.
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I would give her a chance to let things cool down for a while and then maybe try to connect again but I think you just need to give her time and not contact her for a little bit
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Maybe just send her a quick apology text saying that you're sorry, you didn't mean to pressure her, and that you just wanted to get to know her better. Let her know you'll give her some time to think about it and you hope to hear back from her when she's ready.
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Based on the situation, my female perspective is to back off a bit and sent her a tiny note like chippermonkey suggested. While the flowers are very thoughtful, that would be too much too fast for me and would frighten me away even more.
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I agree with the above. Do not push it. Apologize and that's it. If she doesn't respond in the next couple of days you can text her again. Just don't push it.
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