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I have been talking to a guy that I went to high school with. He was 2 grades below me and used to be good friends with one of my friends, but never said more than a few words to each other until the past month and a half. We have been talking every day and we went on a date over the weekend. I drove almost 2 hours to meet him at his house. He took me out to eat at this awesome Mexican restaurant and we had a great time talking and getting to know eachother. He then took me to a party at one of his friends houses and then to a pretty fancy nightclub. While at the club, we both got pretty drunk and ended up making out quite a lot. We had so much fun and I ended up staying the night so I did not have to drive home drunk. We slept together and got intimate. The next morning I think we both felt pretty awkward because of how everything happened so fast, so I kissed him quickly and left.
He has not been a relationship in over 5 years but has had sex with 15 girls. I have been in 3 pretty serious relationships over the past 10 years (one being 5 years and the other 2 were 2 years.) When it comes to falling for someone, it happens fast and hard. I have known of this guy since 2009, but we have only really been getting to know eachother for a little over a month and have had one date. I asked him if he would like to go on a second date here soon and he said yes, but he would let me know when would work for him. I am already developing feelings for him and I feel like I'm trying to rush things. I just don't know what to do. I guess overall I am afraid of getting hurt.. I'm afraid once he fully knows me that he won't like me. I guess I am just looking for advice on how to handle this new possible relationship opportunity.
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I hope you guys used condoms, if he had 15 girls he could possibly have std. See a doctor ASAP. Also he didn't ask you on a second date but you asked him and he said he'd let you know. It typically means no thanks.
Plus you drive two hours to see him. Why isn't he driving to see you? He got drunk and had sex on the first date? Ouch. Not a gentleman. I think he is bad news. Something doesn't feel like it's love of your life. You deserve better Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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