[tylernyers1]

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. We had been best friends for 2 years before and right when we got into our relationship I thought I was going to marry this girl. This is my first girlfriend by the way. I was so happy through the first 5 months and a half months of it then I don't knew what happened. My mind kept telling me that I should break up with her. Then I got a lot of anxiety over this because she treats me so well and I love her to death. Now I'm kind of depressed. I keep thinking that if I were to break up with her that my anxiety and slight depression would go away and I could have fun again. I keep getting worried that I won't have a good summer break because I'll
Have to see her everyday and I don't know why that makes me feel so weird and bad inside. I've just been used to all of this freedom when I was single and not seeing the same person all the time. I love this girl to death I just don't know what to do.....

[Trippin2.0]

Why do you "have to see her everyday"?

Where is that rule written and who was stupid enough to write it?

People need room to breath or they end up suffocating each other.


Idk many couples who can spend all their time together, and the ones who can, there's usually codependency involved, or they don't have any other friends and both enjoy the solitary bubble of just the two of them...


I think you're freaking out because your life is revolving around her and there's little balance in your balancing act.


Do some things without her, with separate friends, spend certain days apart.


You know what they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.


This way you'll have an opportunity to miss each other and build excitement toward seeing one another.


Plus you'll probably have loads more to talk about.


Your depression and anxiety won't go away by dumping her, you'll just gain a different kind.