This lady, the Illusion Dispeller on youtube has some real insight and experience about what it's like to deal with a narcissist person. Most of us have been around this type of person before.

If anyone suspects that they're dealing with one, then watch her videos. She tells it like it is!

[healingme4me]

Thanks for sharing. Although, I must say that It's not just a narcissist that can give a silent treatment

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Originally Posted by healingme4me

Thanks for sharing. Although, I must say that It's not just a narcissist that can give a silent treatment

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No problem! I hope that this was able to help a few people on here! She is awesome! I love the name too! That's true, a lot of passive aggressive people with poor communication skills tend to use the silent treatment too. Well, control freaks tend to do the same thing at times, I know that to well by now, ugh!

[healingme4me]

I liked how vulnerable she was about her new blouse.

My exhusband was great with silent treatments. You can find that also a symptom of bordeline personality disorder.

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[seeker1950]

Thanks for sharing the video. She obviously has insight.
I had a relationship with someone I can only classify as a "textbook" narcissist. One of the first signs I noticed was if I challenged him, even in a small way, a dark cloud of shutdown appeared on his face. It was actually frightening to witness.
I very nearly lost everything I own due to that relationship. In my aftermath, recovery, I did a lot of research, taking 3 years being alone trying to understand what/with whom, I had been involved.
The narcissist if very good at "mimicking" genuine emotion. Seductive, and skilled at getting what they want from people. They feel nothing. They suck the life out of you.

Originally Posted by healingme4me

I liked how vulnerable she was about her new blouse.

My exhusband was great with silent treatments. You can find that also a symptom of bordeline personality disorder.

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Yeah, me too! She's so cool. I can't beleive that there are people attacking her on there and calling her videos stupid, and that they have the nerve to make nasty comments about her weight and how she looks. I wish that I could be her friend. She's cool and smart!

My husband has used the silent treatment for days on end every time we ended up having a really bad fight. The slient treatment sucks! I hate that! It's so childish!

Originally Posted by seeker1950

Thanks for sharing the video. She obviously has insight.
I had a relationship with someone I can only classify as a "textbook" narcissist. One of the first signs I noticed was if I challenged him, even in a small way, a dark cloud of shutdown appeared on his face. It was actually frightening to witness.
I very nearly lost everything I own due to that relationship. In my aftermath, recovery, I did a lot of research, taking 3 years being alone trying to understand what/with whom, I had been involved.
The narcissist if very good at "mimicking" genuine emotion. Seductive, and skilled at getting what they want from people. They feel nothing. They suck the life out of you.

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She sure does! She should be a licensed therapist! Sorry to hear about your ex- Wow, that's horrible! Yes, it does seem like they're like very good actors who don't really feel much of anything unrelatd to them. My dad is one, so that is why I try to avoid him as much as I can these days.

[divine1966]

I can't stand silent treatment. My dad is expert on that and so was my grandma. So terrible. Very damaging.

As about this lady I couldn't stop wondering what are those grey bags on the back? But I was watching it on the phone so was hard to see. Trash bags? She'd really do better removing them from the background. Very distracting

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Originally Posted by divine1966

I can't stand silent treatment. My dad is expert on that and so was my grandma. So terrible. Very damaging.

As about this lady I couldn't stop wondering what are those grey bags on the back? But I was watching it on the phone so was hard to see. Trash bags? She'd really do better removing them from the background. Very distracting

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I can't stand the silent treatment either! Sorry to hear about your dad and grandma! My husband will do that when we get into really bad fights, but thank god that hasn't happened in a over a year! I didn't notice any bags. Yeah, it'd be a good idea to remove those next time. It doesn't look right in a video.