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Mar 01, 2016, 04:25 PM
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Hi,
I'm a straight, 29 years old, male. I met a person in library few months ago and became friends. After few days he started saying, we can live together for saving our rents and expenses but from his behaviour I tried to avoid and it lasts for 2 months but he was on same line saying, we should live together. Finally we rented a flat and lived there, but after few days we started quarelling on such small issues like bathroom, food, water and such small things. After this happened 3-4 times, I finally told him that either you leave the room or I'll vacate it from next month. He started apologizing and we fixed our misunderstanding but again it happened 4-5 times in just 2 months and the one thing I didn't like, after any quarrel, he stopped talking with me for many days and so I felt irritated and frustrated. But after an another quarell, he said I'll vacate the room. Now on the last day he started saying, I told this by mistake and I don't want to leave the room but the room was rented to someone else and he left the room today. Although from begining I didn't want to live with him but after living together for 3 months and he left the room today I'm feeling guilty and very sad and too much negative things in my mind that, did I forced him to leave the room or Did I do any wrong, Im not a good person or such many things in my mind. Friends, please advise how to come out from this negative thinking. Thanks |
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Mar 02, 2016, 01:13 PM
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I just think you two are not compatible.
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Mar 02, 2016, 04:58 PM
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I think moving in with someone after just a few months was your first mistake. All you guys are doing is arguing so I think it's a good thing he left. If you two can't get along then how are you supposed to live together? You barely knew each other to begin with. I would leave it how it is and move on. Don't feel bad.
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Mar 02, 2016, 09:18 PM
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Am I reading correctly that you've filled the vacancy already?
No use living like you were. That's no way to live. Sent from my LGMS631 using Tapatalk |
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