[leftlight]

My ex of two years told me that she was a wanderer and she used me during the duration of our five year relationship for her own malipulative needs she already knows me tho why is she fostering my pain?

[Open Eyes]

Oh leftlight, I am sorry this individual told you she used you, how hurtful. Yes, some women "are" manipulative users. Please do not allow yourself to see all women like that.
Are you dating someone new now?

[ComfortablyNumb5]

Wow. And I don't know what to say other than that really. If ANY ex told me that, I'd be heart broken for sure. I'm so sorry someone did that to you. I would lose all contact with that person because they weren't worthy of your love back then, and not worthy for a minute of your attention now. I hope you can heal and move on from this kind of abuse.

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[divine1966]

I am sorry. You are much better off without this evil person. She has no shame.

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[Bill3]

She may be just saying that to hurt you now.

But suppose it is true.

I gather that you loved her and that love was helpful to you, it gave you joy, meaning, purpose. If it is true that she was using you then she was simply hurting herself and denying herself the true love that you yourself experienced. Whether or not she loved you in truth, you loved her in truth.

[Lazarus16]

Originally Posted by Bill3

She may be just saying that to hurt you now.

But suppose it is true.

I gather that you loved her and that love was helpful to you, it gave you joy, meaning, purpose. If it is true that she was using you then she was simply hurting herself and denying herself the true love that you yourself experienced. Whether or not she loved you in truth, you loved her in truth.

Great post! If the relationship gave you all you seeked, I'd say it's pretty much your ex that lost her time during the 5 years and you lost nothing at all, you got everything you seeked. Of course, I don't know if that's what happened but if it is then there's nothing to worry about. If not, learn from it so the next time a girl try the same little game, you won't be fooled again. You see, there's positive in practically everything.

[s4ndm4n2006]

Originally Posted by leftlight

My ex of two years told me that she was a wanderer and she used me during the duration of our five year relationship for her own malipulative needs she already knows me tho why is she fostering my pain?

Why are you even talking to someone that is 1. an ex and 2. clearly causes you pain?