[black-roses]

Okay, so there was this psychic on Facebook that started saying that my mother was using my mental illness as an excuse to control me. I am still really quite upset and I feel tearful that someone who doesn't even know her would talk about her like that. I wanted to gut the ***** and many moments I wanted to tell her she is crazy and doesn't know jack ****. I held my tongue but it would be good growth for me if I called her out on her behavior but since she doesn't even know me personally it would be a waste of time so I just marked her messages as spam and left it. Then she sent me an email saying that my guy friend was no good and I needed spiritual help to get rid of his hold on me? I don't even know what she means. I would love to send her page after page of insults and how she's a piece of **** for judging someone she doesn't know I wanted to tell her to go to hell and she's a psychotic piece of **** who uses the title psychic to put fear into them and get money out of them. I wanted to tell her she's not a psychic she's just a crazy ***** on Facebook but instead I let it go. I told myself she is just a tiney tiny person that doesn't know me and my mother personally therefore her opinion is jack ****. However, I am still fuming and there is nothing more than I wanted than to defend my mother. She said I was indenial the only person who is in denial is her she is a vicious ***** who has nothing better to do then to judge and say false disgusting things about someone.

[Artchic528]

I know you're furious about this "psychic", but I'm afraid I don't understand how she came to be in contact with you. Did you seek her out for her services, or did she suddenly pop up soliciting her so called "abilities" and offering her services to you?

While they're true psychics on this earth, this woman sounds like a fraud. She just wants to draw you in and wring out as much money from you as she can. I would block her on all fronts, aka your email and your Facebook account. She is clearly upsetting you and you shouldn't have to deal with such a basket case.

I would also work on calming down and letting go of that anger once you feel it's appropriate. Holding onto anger isn't healthy in the least, but each person deals with it in their own way, on their own time, so I can't set a timeframe that would be healthy for you to deal with it.

[s4ndm4n2006]

Originally Posted by black-roses

Okay, so there was this psychic on Facebook that started saying that my mother was using my mental illness as an excuse to control me. I am still really quite upset and I feel tearful that someone who doesn't even know her would talk about her like that. I wanted to gut the ***** and many moments I wanted to tell her she is crazy and doesn't know jack ****. I held my tongue but it would be good growth for me if I called her out on her behavior but since she doesn't even know me personally it would be a waste of time so I just marked her messages as spam and left it. Then she sent me an email saying that my guy friend was no good and I needed spiritual help to get rid of his hold on me? I don't even know what she means. I would love to send her page after page of insults and how she's a piece of **** for judging someone she doesn't know I wanted to tell her to go to hell and she's a psychotic piece of **** who uses the title psychic to put fear into them and get money out of them. I wanted to tell her she's not a psychic she's just a crazy ***** on Facebook but instead I let it go. I told myself she is just a tiney tiny person that doesn't know me and my mother personally therefore her opinion is jack ****. However, I am still fuming and there is nothing more than I wanted than to defend my mother. She said I was indenial the only person who is in denial is her she is a vicious ***** who has nothing better to do then to judge and say false disgusting things about someone.

She claims to be a psychic. You clearly are skeptical of her abilities, which is understandable. I am sure you have your reasons for not accepting the things she's saying. But then why does it bother you so? Let it go, as you said she doesn't know your mother so her opinion on someone she doesn't know really does not need to affect you, your emotions or life. Just move on, nothing to see there. kindly shut the door and say bye. (or not so kindly if that's what you choose to do) but move on this person is not worth your energy in getting so upset about something that has no meaning at all.

I too am curious though as to how you came to the point of talking to a psychic about your mother in the first place.

[seesaw]

If this person is someone who is soliciting you then you are exactly right that she's a person who uses the title psychic just to scare people and exploit them into giving her more and more money. If you can, just brush it off as spam and delete the messages, block her, etc. Report her to Facebook if you can too.

Seesaw

[black-roses]

No, I was on a spiritual page asking if I was going to be mentally fine but she just mentioned me all these long as messages about how I don't feel like I can be my true self because I am afraid of being rejected I just listened to her and just explained I felt like my mother doesn't understand me you know melodramatic young adult stuff. Then she just started saying that my mother was using my mental illness to control me, I just shut off after that. I guess I just shouldn't be replying to people especially if I don't know that was very silly of me,

[IrisBloom]

You now know she gives bad advice. Just put her on ignore and move on. And you have learned a lesson about sharing personal things with a stranger online.

This is just a fraud trying to pull you in so she can eventually make money off of you. Why get so worked up about it? Just block her and move on. Stay of random psychic sites from now on.

[black-roses]

:grouphugD Definitely all is good at least I know my life is going good and I can trust myself now I don't need another psychic to confirm I will be okay because I know it!!!: