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Apr 13, 2016, 04:01 PM
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Hi
I'm new and abit confused but need to speke to someone. Ive been with my husband of 3 years for 6 years now. Lately i feel really paranoid that hes talking to my best friend.... (i fell out with her a year or so ago over her sending 'fitness' pics of herself to him without me knowing. My husband said it was nothing in it and he assumed i had received them too.) I told her never to speke again him but i cant help feeling the way i do now! Its ruining my relationship! I have no reason to feel this way as he says he hasnt got her number or her on facebook ( plus shes married too) he tells me he doesnt and i should believe him but its always at the back of my head is he just hiding it??? Do i need to go and see my dr as i really cant live this way any longer |
 Bill3
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Apr 14, 2016, 10:09 AM
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Hi, welcome to PC
 I would encourage you to seek professional help. Maybe couple counselling/therapy might also be an option so you can work together on why you have trust issues with him. Was there s.th. in your marriage (besides the pics) that gives you reason to not believe him? Love and support |
 Bill3
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Apr 19, 2016, 07:12 PM
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Hello Gym23: I see this is your first post here on PC... so... welcome to PsychCentral... from the Skeezyks!
 May you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.  It sounds to me as though you & your husband are having some serious difficulties. You asked if you should see your doctor. This may be a good first step. But another thing you might consider, if your hubby is willing, is to invest in some marriage / couples counseling. Maintaining a long-term marital relationship can be tough. The two of you have only been married for 3 years & you've already hit some rough water, so to speak. Before things continue to get even more complicated, some honest & open communication between you & your husband, with the help of a skilled marriage & family therapist, may be important. Sometimes men, in particular, can be resistant to such efforts. If you find that your husband is, then please seek individual therapy for yourself to help you to deal with how you are feeling about this situation as well as to figure out what, if anything, to do about it. I wish you well... 
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