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Apr 24, 2016, 06:32 AM
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Parents can be so involved in their childs love life I keep telling mum that I am not interested in dating Jack because I want to have at least one male friend I truly trust with everything. The way I feel is that I have way to much pain in my chest to be able to open up to anyone for a relationship. Weither any psychic or pendulum says that next year I will have a relationship the pain I feel in my chest the grief I feel isn't bugging all that much. Yes, I am a lot happier but the pain I feel is way to much to just push aside for anyone why can't people understand that we don't need relationships to feel forfilled and valued. We can feel that way about ourselves why do we need to rely on others to make us feel valued and forfilled. It all starts within. heart emoticon Remember the love you feel towards yourself is the love you attract start thinking positive pure thoughts heart emoticon
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Apr 24, 2016, 07:53 AM
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Well it's nice to have a relationship. You said you are struggling with basic tasks like taking care of yourself type of chores so how does your mom think you'll conduct a relationship? I would tell you her that you first work on learning how to go handle life on your own and relationship will come later when you are ready
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Apr 24, 2016, 08:37 AM
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I guess I explained to her that I wanted to have male friends I am close too first so that I become used and comfortable with company. So I learn what is the appropriate amount of boundaries I need to have. My psychologist is concerned that I am isolating myself but I don't know how to deal with it because no matter what I do people always notice that there is something up with me. They pick up on my lack of concentration and I guess I have been isolating myself because it is too much being around people when they pick up something is up and then I get lectured not to behave like a brain dead vegetable it sucks and I don't know what to do. I guess to stop the judgement and being made fun of I isolated myself from all human contact.
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Apr 24, 2016, 08:39 AM
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Also, when I hang out with friends it's like they have to baby sit me because of the stupid mistakes I make when not concentrating. So I basically become a burden to my friends and it makes me feel horrible inside so that's basically why I seized becoming close to anyone for there sake. Plus I feel like a burden
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