[Yismymindblank12]

I went on a date last week and it went great, but she said it was like twice, but I called it a date for myself, but didn't know what to call it.
She was very greatful and happy to see me, but I guess I should of seen this coming. She's the type to say she's not interested in dates and just give out her info to strangers till she finds one to cling onto and puts everyone else in the trash bin. She didn't give me much a chance after that.

told me it wasn't a date, I don't do dates and sorry I have plans.

"Like I'm like didn't you say it was before... and let's do this again soon."

Like this is the type of **** is why I cannot trust anyone.

I've learned time and time again as a guy, do not let her have any hold of your heart and head. She does not belong there, she's not the closest person in your life so keep her out far out.
I'm skeptical for a good reason and it's because girls suck or I suck at finding the right people.

[Tsukiko]

It absolutely sucks when someone plays like a date isn't a date when it clearly is.
It hurts a lot, but like you said, she plays a minor role in your life and wasn't able to do much damage.

How long have you known her? Were you aware of her personality before you started dating?

(Hello from a fellow Cincinnatian!)

[Yismymindblank12]

Originally Posted by Tsukiko-chan

It absolutely sucks when someone plays like a date isn't a date when it clearly is.
It hurts a lot, but like you said, she plays a minor role in your life and wasn't able to do much damage.

How long have you known her? Were you aware of her personality before you started dating?

(Hello from a fellow Cincinnatian!)

I've known her for a day, and yes pretty solid amount. So this didn't surprise me on her response. I find it weird she was clear on her profile she isn't expecting dates or whatever, when telling me she just broke up an ex after clinging on him getting mad at him for having sex with another girl when they weren't together and were just fooling around.

Like that was a huge red flag there she doesn't take other people's emotions seriously, she was honest to me at first which let me put my guard down, but it got the best of me at first and she just dropped me off like yesterdays news.

[s4ndm4n2006]

Originally Posted by Yismymindblank12

I've known her for a day, and yes pretty solid amount. So this didn't surprise me on her response. I find it weird she was clear on her profile she isn't expecting dates or whatever, when telling me she just broke up an ex after clinging on him getting mad at him for having sex with another girl when they weren't together and were just fooling around.

Like that was a huge red flag there she doesn't take other people's emotions seriously, she was honest to me at first which let me put my guard down, but it got the best of me at first and she just dropped me off like yesterdays news.

first in response to your first post comment 'girls suck' well, men suck too. some of both genders anyway. finding a decent person to date and be in a relationship isn't an easy thing for anyone really, there are a lot of people that are horrible at dating and that is on top of the ones that are ok but we aren't compatible with. All this means is that it's not a simple thing to find the right one and just because you've found many wrongs does not make you bad at finding the right one. It's hard for everyone

Besides you knew her for a day? I'm not even sure I'd ever ask a woman out if I'd only had that little time getting to know her really. be more patient and look for things beyond the initial physical attraction which is really all that's there after a day. it's not a race to the finish.